Tolya Yul-Bataar X Autistic!Reader

Tolya Yul-Bataar X autistic!Reader

He always does his best to accomodate you

If you have a meltdown, Tolya won't leave

He'll just ask you what you need and make sure you have it

He thinks your stims are adorable

If anyone tries to pick on you for your autistic traits he'll deal with them

He could spend hours listening to you infodump about your special interest (s)

Do you have higher support needs? That's fine!

Tolya will make sure you remember to eat, drink, go to the bathroom, sleep, etc.

He'll stop you from doing things that might be more dangerous than you're aware of and keep an eye out for anything that might be challenging for you

Nonverbal? That's fine. You can communicate with sign language and he'll tell others what you're saying

Tolya himself could be read as autistic, depending on if it's in the show or books

If you get overwhelmed and need deep pressure he's more than happy to squeeze you in his arms and rock you until you feel better

He fills you in on missed social cues and explains figures of speech that you don't understand

He never, ever infantilizes you or talks down to you

He makes sure to have your safe foods on hand at all times

Can't stand the texture of his clothes? He'll stop wearing that fabric

If you ever start masking, he'll be concerned

He'll want to remove you from any situation that makes you feel like you need to hide a part of yourself

He loves your spontaneity

He likes how you just say exactly what you're thinking when you think it

Do you show affection in odd ways, like giving him pebbles you find or biting him?

He'll treasure whatever you give him until the end of time

The biting thing is a little annoying but he just can't be mad at you when you're so damn cute

Sometimes he gets you back

Overall, he just adores all your little quirks

What my Grammy said: My brother has just called to tell me that his wife is dying!

What I said: That's horrible!

What I was thinking: How the fuck is her brother alive he's ancient

HC about Hazel Levesque: because of the trauma of being alone in Asphodel for so long, she doesn't like to sleep alone. If she's around someone she feels safe with, she usually ends up in their bed at night.

Nico, being Hazel's brother, is her most frequent victim. She moves a lot in her sleep, so it's not very comfortable for him. Sometimes she pushes him out of his bed in her sleep, and sometimes he wakes up choking on her hair.

He doesn't have the heart to kick her out of his own bed.

I don't think I'll ever again be as poetic as when I wrote this on the back of picture of myself when I was a kid.

Tolya Yul-Bataar x Reader Beach Day Headcanons

First off, if you're white he's going to be very worried about you getting sunburn

He'll slather you with sunscreen every half hour you're there

"Tolya, it's fine." "Y/N, you could get skin cancer!"

He'll throw you in the ocean a thousand times just because he can

But he'll go along with whatever you want to do

He'll let you bury him in sand

He'll collect seashells with you

If you say you want to try and catch dinner, he'll simply stop a fish's heart for you

"What? This is the most efficient way."

Tolya would definitely get sucked into building sandcastles with children

It starts when he offers them a seashell for their castle

Then they realize he's a friendly giant

Before that he was just a giant, and that scared them a little

It ends with him getting buried in sand again

Whatever mythology the Shu have regarding the ocean, he'll tell to you while you sit together under your tent

He'll want to make sure you stay hydrated well out in the sun so he'll constantly remind you to drink something

At the end of the day, when it's time to go, he won't let you carry much of anything

If you show any sign of exhaustion, he may just decide to carry you to the car

He loves it when he gets to pick you up

Hot Take: ADHD is over diagnosed and autism is under diagnosed.