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“the internet is making you antisocial”

Well yeah it’s also told me that who I am and my identity in not a joke or unnatural I’ve met supportive people, and made great friends that made me loathe myself less and be more confident generally but why the fuck should that matter when the internet is the source of all evil™ right?

How to be more Confident

- Develop new skills

- Get comfortable being uncomfortable

- Stop talking over people and learn to listen

- Always be willing to learn and accept that you don't know everything

- Stop trying to prove yourself

- Walk into places like you deserve to be there... because you do

- Talk to yourself like you would someone you love

- Do one thing every day that scares you

- Do one thing different every day thats outside of your routine

- Limit your screen time

- Consume content that helps you grow and exemplifies the life you want

- Value your time

- Realize you only have one life

- Use the "okay and" mentality

- Create the ideal version of yourself and practice it consistently until it becomes you

- Fix your posture

- Take care of your inner and outer appearance

- Create routines

- Stop trying to achieve perfection

- Talk to strangers

- Practice complimenting others

- Accept and confront your emotions so you can learn how to overcome them

Small reminder to stay calm even if the bill does get approved tomorrow.

Remember, the bill still has a very long way to go before it becomes an official law all around the U.S., and even if it does get to the president, there will be a very long 18 month time-frame where we can fight as much as we possibly can in order for it to be revoked (remember all of the other laws and bills in the past that got revoked because of protests).

Listen, I get that you're scared. I get that you're scared of losing everything that you've worked for, and that's okay. But thinking that it's all over by tomorrow if it gets approved is not a very good mindset to have. Remember, the reason why it hasn't gotten approved yet is because we've all been speaking out against it and refusing to back down even when it seems hopeless. Be optimistic. Be confident in everyone around you working with you in order to succeed in not letting these terrible bills pass.

It's not just KOSA you should be fighting against either. There are many bills like the recent FISA ACT and the Earn It Act that are also threats to our rights. Please advocate against those just as much as you've done for KOSA. Let's fight for our futures together as one.

Thank you, and have a good day/afternoon/night. Don't lose hope now!

; hullo !! This is your daily reminder to be weird and be funky and be authentic because the coolest people are the people who aren't afraid of not being seen as cool !!

PREACH

THIS!!!

I am tired of these videos, and I know some black girls are sometimes requesting people to make these types of videos but come on it’s 2019 we not out here seeking validation from ANYONE. I don’t care what any of these other races think of me, I wish people would stop making these types of videos cuz they’re annoying. As for the black little girls requesting stuff like this, please stop cuz y'all end up hurt because the people of other races don’t say what you want them to. You are BEAUTIFUL, GORGEOUS, INTELLIGENT, INNOVATIVE, TRENDSETTERS, and don’t need anyone to tell you that. Let’s stop this mess. (This also applies to them Light skin vs dark skin public asking videos, keep that shit off the internet)

REAL🗣️🗣️💥💥💯🔥

For those who are scared or self conscious LISTEN TO MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE PLEASE!!

In my life I was made fun of for a lot of things but to keep it short and sweet let's do the fact I am "weird". So naturally you start to care more and more about those things and try to hide them, and I ended up feeling not like me. I would come home from school feeling worse than i did when I was teased for it. And I learned to take. It. In. Stride. "You're fat" fuck yeah I am, and I know that. "That's childish" yeah, it is, but I like it. "You thought you ate with that outfit? " yeah, I did, so what? Just simply have no reaction and just say "ok" [aka what I like to call when the world is cold, be colder] ! I have been better off doing this while simultaneously doing what I love and it makes all the difference

Edit: I accidentally just said "I am" lmao

Once you learn to not really care anymore, it gets a lot easier

(This is abt getting made fun of btw, I’m not just being edgy)