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So even tho the jury are gonna be told it’s corrupted evidence he’s still allowed to misrepresent it as Johnny’s words in his closing? That’s wild.

Can someone tell me why Rottenborn was allowed to reference the incoming texts again in his closing? Weren’t the jury supposed to be told they were corrupt?

Rare footage of Ambuser telling the truth.

AMBER STOLE ANOTHER STORY OMG💀😭

A reminder, as we wait for a verdict from the jury, that Johnny has already won. This trial gave him the first opportunity in six years to speak his truth freely, and unload a lot of the burden that he's been carrying with him since. He's already on the other side of the roaring rapids.

friendly reminder that “mutual abuse” is literally considered a myth by a lot of experts in the area of IPV, DV, and abusive relationships in general. 

abuse is all about an imbalance of power and control. in an abusive relationship one person tends to have more control than the other and of the other. both can of course behave in unhealthy and toxic ways because of the abuse, but “mutual abuse” is literally being debunked by therapists that even goes as far as to say: “mutually abusive relationships don’t exist.”

instead what people often confuse as being “mutual abuse” is actually known as reactive abuse. when the abused partner has had enough and finally decides to fight back, not ‘cause they want power and control to persist, but because they want the power and control to stop. therefore it’s important to note who’s initiating the abuse (aka who’s in control) and who’s reacting (aka who’s being abused).

claims of “mutual abuse” is used to shift blame and manipulate the abused into believing that they’re an abuser themselves who’s equally - if not more - responsible for the abuse as the actual abuser, experts say, calling the term a “victim-blaming tactic.”

used to gaslight the victim, like for example claiming their reactive anger as aggressive behaviour. this is all a part of the abuse to gain that control and power over the other. using the victim’s possibly violent self-defence to manipulate others into believing that the roles are reversed and that the abuser is not the abuser but rather the abused.

my own personal experience echoes this; my abuser loved to remind me of how hurtful, irrational, and difficult i was being towards her (yes, her.. a woman). and while i did eventually behave in a toxic way towards her, this was me reacting to her abuse, when i had my meltdowns of having had enough. i’m not proud of how i behaved back then.. not proud of some of the things i said and did. it’s not who i am and what i stand for, but i recognise it for what it was: resistance of the control and power she tried to have over me.

abuse can push you so close to the edge that you feel it necessary to act in ways that aren’t in alignment with who you are.. just to survive another day.

if you’ve ever displayed reactive abuse towards your abuser, that does not make you an abuser too. self defence is not mutual abuse.

And there was justice for Johnny.

Fuck Amber Heard

It’s defamation when the allegations are LIES, you stupid fuck. What’s not clicking???

so now women legally cannot even mention having been victims of domestic violence or sexual assault without it being defamation. I hope y’all demons fucking die in the most painful way imaginable.

Big win for Johnny Depp and also for men fighting abuse. Metoo made it all too easy for vile women to hop onto the band wagon and spread lies. Don't just 'believe her' - believe in evidence.

Johnny Depp is innocent, and we support him in his fight for truth and justice!

I literally can’t block people as fast as they reveal themselves as Amber Heard stans

Like women just lost the right to make public allegations about someone physically and s*xually abusing them when said allegations are FALSE and can be proven FALSE**

Like women just lost 1st amendment rights lol.

The jury did NOT believe she was abused. The only defamation count she won was about she and her friends staging a crime scene after consulting her publicist and lawyer then calling the cops back a second time bc the first set of officers left after seeing no evidence of a crime. They decided that one, extremely specific statement was defamatory bc there was insufficient evidence to prove she and her friends did those things that night, NOT bc there was insufficient evidence to prove the abuse was a hoax. If they believed he abused her he wouldn’t have won all 3 counts of defamation bc you can’t defame someone if you’re telling the truth.

so the jury recognizes that amber was abused, that the abuse she wrote about happened. but its also defamation to have written about what did happen? very contradictory, dont you think? what this says to me is the jury knew amber was telling the truth but the media presence was enough to pressure them into ruling in favor of johnny. which is exactly what he wanted. he made it a public trial in the court he did because he knew it was the best chance he had at winning and it fucking happened.

EDIT: see reblog

It’s okay, I know you didn’t actually watch the 6 week long trial, so here’s some fun facts for you! <3

1. The cherry picked texts used to prove how horrible Johnny was to Amber were instances of him venting to his friends about his abuser. None of them were said/sent to Amber, nor were they acted upon like Amber admittedly acted upon her violent thoughts. If the shoe was on the other foot and a female dv victim was saying the absolute WORST shit imaginable to her friends about her male abuser you’d be saying it was justified after everything he put her through.

2. The photos of Amber’s “injuries” were proven to be edited. She submitted duplicates of the same photos but messed with the contrast to try and make the marks on her face (note the complete absence of any accompanying swelling) look darker and more severe, meanwhile denying the duplicates were the exact same photos that had been edited (she did the same thing with alleged property damage). There was also no way to prove when the photos were even taken bc she submitted backups of copies of copies and not the originals.

3. The texts from Johnny’s assistant were the result of Johnny asking him to placate/pacify Amber, as he, and so many other victims of abuse often do bc they don’t want to enrage their abuser further by saying they’re lying or that they didn’t do anything wrong. All it proves is that he tried to deescalate the situation after she had an outburst or was mad at him about something, which contradicts her claims of him refusing to take accountability for anything and flying off the handle if he was disagreed with, criticized or accused of something.

4. There are multiple audio recordings of Amber admitting SHE was the physical aggressor and mocking and taunting Johnny for “running away from every fight.” She even says “I can’t promise you I won’t get violent again, I just get so mad sometimes I fucking lose it. But I promise you I’ll try and change.” She also calls him a baby, a coward and a pussy for complaining about her ADMITTEDLY physically abusing him, yelling “I DIDN’T HURT YOU, YOU’RE FINE, GROW TF UP.” Now reverse the genders and tell me you wouldn’t be OUTRAGED if a man said and did that shit to a woman.

Amber (07:08): "every time you don't like what I say, and you f**king run away, we never work out anything. You can't run away every fight. You can't. It's easy. It's not brave. It's not strong."

Amber: "But I haven't even been able to have, like, a fight with you beyond, in any real talking kind of speaking context in so long because any time anything goes wrong, you split. I feel like it's your first thing. And it's unnecessary. It's not always you're splitting because there's blows or because there's yelling or anything. You split many, most times when I'm still speaking in this volume, and nothing has been thrown or hit or anything." (28:56)

5. The photos of the mirror were taken after she smashed a vodka bottle on his hand and severed his fucking finger after chasing him to 5 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms when he was trying to escape an attack. But yeah no, shame on him for being understandably pissed about that and taking out his frustrations on a mirror by writing some nasty shit to her on it when he was in the midst of a literal nervous breakdown. Bc that’s SOOO much worse than relentlessly chasing after someone who’s desperately trying to get tf away from your aggressive ass, launching a vodka bottle at their head, severing a digit and stomping a cigarette out on their fucking cheek, right?

Johnny after Amber punched him in the face.

Amber after Johnny headbutted her at full force, broke her nose and gave her two black eyes and a busted lip.

Johnny after Amber threw a vodka bottle at his hand and severed his fingertip.

Amber after Johnny wound up his arm like a baseball pitcher and threw a phone at her face at close range.

Johnny after Amber put a cigarette out on his face.

Amber after Johnny repeatedly whacked her in the face with multiple chunky metal rings on and injured her nose so badly she thought it was broken (again).

Johnny after Amber punched him in the face.

Amber with a bruised jaw and cuts all over her arms after Johnny clocked her in the face multiple times and held her down against a countertop covered in broken glass.

Notice the difference?

Like women just lost 1st amendment rights lol.

Here come Amber's supporters getting piss off and going off johnny supporters like usual

If you side with a woman who admitted committing DV, a woman who stole another woman’s SA story, a woman who edited pictures in order to frame Johnny Depp, a woman who despite allegedly being beaten to within an inch of her life and then appeared on TV the next day without a scratch, a woman who was the reason Johnny lost part of his finger, a woman who caused structural damage to a bed base with a pen knife and blamed Johnny’s boot, a woman who gaslighted & mentally abused a vulnerable man, a woman who accused several doctors, nurses, police officers, security guards of lying, a woman who threw her own legal team under a bus, a woman who is being investigated for perjury in more than one country, a woman who alerted news outlets of her divorce then lied about it, a woman who refused to believe anyone’s version of events but her own despite the overwhelming evidence, a woman with previous criminal records for DV then please, please, I beg you…

Get. The. Fuck. Off. My. Blog.

Thank you. 

these people saying they'd beat Johnny depp make me sick to my fucking stomach. if you are on amber heards side, you are absolutely disgusting. you are a vile human being and I hate you.

fucking choke holy shit I am SO heated. it's always "believe the victim" until it's a fucking guy. you people are sick.

edit: I am literally sick to my stomach just thinking about this /srs

THE FACT THIS IS A REAL ARGUMENT PPL ARE USING, I-😭😭😭

"I like how the same people saying "happy pride month" are happy a bisexual woman lost against her heterosexual male abuser" (deadass, someone said this)

Did we all watch the same court? Was I- was I fucking dreaming? Did I make up the photos? The audio recordings? The fucking eyewitness accounts and expert testimonies? Amber is the abuser, and I'm baffled that anyone with eyes and ears can't see that. Also NEITHER OF THEIR SEXUALITIES HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH WHETHER OR NOT THEYRE CAPABLE OF ABUSE. AMBER IS NOT A REPRESENTATIVE OF EVERY BISEXUAL PERSON AND JOHNNY IS NOT THE EPITOME OF EVERY STRAIGHT MAN EVER. WHAT THE FUCK. 😭

All the credit to @trekkitkat for bringing up the shit I didn't know or completely forgot about, seriously they have like the best points 'cause y'all remember this?

"Otherwise know me as threatening is life if he MISBEHAVES with the giant fucking dagger I gave him that's ingrained with "'Till death" after I asked to be in his will and on his insurance because that's not fucking weird AT ALL"

Imagine being a DV victim and brining your case to public curt. Putting your whole life in front of the whole world and your abuser.

Showing evidence, photos, audios and witnesses.

Imagine doing all that and actually WIN.

And yet some of you keep victim blame and gaslight him just because he's a man.

I'm honestly disgusted.

Watch the evidence and get your heads out of social media. Stop victim blaming and gaslighting DV victims.

“This case and the societal response to it, the global bullying, mocking and hatred towards Amber is destroying VAWG, feminism & any progress we've made breaking down stigma of domestic/sexual abuse”

No 👏🏼 it 👏🏼 isn’t 👏🏼 bc 👏🏼 she’s 👏🏼 not 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 fucking 👏🏼 victim 👏🏼

How many times does it have to be emphasised that ppl aren’t mocking a dv/sa victim, they’re mocking a manipulative, deceitful abuser who committed perjury a million fucking times, was caught using fabricated evidence in a court of law and was found by an impartial jury of her peers to have LIED ABOUT BEING ABUSED TO RUIN AN INNOCENT MAN’S LIFE??? And the trial was televised bc the VICTIM wanted the truth to finally be made public and to give all the ppl who took his abuser’s disgusting lies at face value 6 yrs ago and have vilified him ever since the opportunity to actually witness her lying, gaslighting and manipulating in real time, not bc of some evil misogynistic agenda. But ofc a rad fem “doctor” who’s convinced bpd and hpd are fake disorders made up by the patriarchy to discredit women thinks that 🙄

"You know how many men are starting to sarcastically call their wives/girlfriends ‘Amber’ or ‘Miss Heard’ when they are upset or angry?

I keep getting messages and comments from women saying this is happening to them in arguments with spouse or exes.

The damage is done.

This case and the societal response to it, the global bullying, mocking and hatred towards Amber is destroying VAWG, feminism & any progress we’ve made breaking down stigma of domestic/sexual abuse - either that - or we had never made any progress at all & we were in an echo chamber.

Last week was the first time a woman commented to tell me that her ex has started calling her ‘Amber’ as an insult.

Then another woman commented that her husband threatened her and when she cried, he called her ‘Amber’

I’ve started seeing more and more comments.

This morning I woke up to a comment from a woman who said her ex was screaming at her in front of their daughter so she asked him to stop screaming and lower his voice and he said ‘Ok Miss Heard’ and DARVO her.

The fact that these comments appear to be from women from different countries, different ages, different backgrounds and yet men are starting to use ‘Amber’ and ‘Miss Heard’ as an insult is fucking terrifying.

I keep finding myself questioning what the real agenda was of televising this trial, and the media coverage of it.

What was the real purpose of tearing apart a woman like this for the whole world to watch on YouTube and Tiktok with their popcorn?

I think we are finding out."

— Dr. Jessica Taylor