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(old) the rainbow system
this was back when i thought they were just ocs (silly me)
more info about us here
I SAID HEADMATES WERE WILD BUT WTF??
got another insys interaction featuring tim (yes, the marble hornet)
drawing the body and resisting the urge to add facial hair. screaming crying why don't I get to be scruffy
You know that Sad moment when as a fictive the company that owns your scource world messes it up and now you don't want to support them even thought the world they created is so important to you because it is litteraly your home.
Lokag (our dnd fictive ) and Astatine (our wh40k fictive ) commiserating.
Ah we made a mistake today!
A friend messaged with us to let us know that my "fwb" (friend with benefits) had started dating someone and hadn't told me (we had agreed not to date people, at least not without letting the other one know, for comfort reasons) and I got upset so I said "k" and my friend got upset because they thought I was being rude :(
Then when they tried to confront me on it, it triggered out nightmare and nightmare stated an argument with them, I feel so bad. I feel like I should've done something to stop the argument but I couldn't, and I don't know why
I don't like arguments and now I've lost my fwb and idk I feel so lonely now
-zim / wally
𖤓 — introduction — ☽
Name — mothman / max / mothy
Pronouns — it/they
Sexuality — pansexual
Gender — agender / any xenos with moths or cryptids
Role — (outer) soother
Source — mothman (the cryptid)
Likes — light (obviously), being friendly, hugs, games, staying up late, sitting down on fluffy things (idk) & true crime
Dislikes — daylight (I get tired), loud noises, electricity sounds, humans with guns, being discovered, being cold & talking
About me / extra — semi-verbal, tired 24/7 but even more so in the day, I'm good at listening to people but bad at explaining my thoughts, I'm pretty lonesome but enjoy dabbling in friendship
DNI — fake claimers, endos or non-traumagenic "systems", bug haters (sorry, but ya gots to go), people who judge based on source
Face claims — below
User boxes for fun —
Discovering a new subsystem is like:
"woah, who tf are you?"
"HI, WE DONT KNOW, OKAY WELL HERE'S ANOTHER 5 OF US"
"Oh- :')"
Like love you guys but where the fuck did you come from??
Sorry this probably makes no sense, we found a subsystem recently and just needed to say something to someone, in this case, Tumblr
Ahhg
It annoys us so much when someone asks "oh, can we talk to [insert alter name]"
Or when they like complain!
LIKE
"I miss [insert alter name] so much!! I haven't seen [insert pronoun] in so long!!"
Like FUCKING CRY ABOUT IT
We don't care. Stop begging us to talk to the more social alters just because you find them easier to be friends with, like fuck sake. We're people too, we have feelings
(not directed to anyone we're just angry)
- blurry - like seriously what the fuck is happening rn??
Literally just a rant about having to tell ppl about our alter count & being scared about being fakeclaimed
Ngl we hate having to tell our friends about our updated alter count, cause they always gape or ask "what happened?" And we don't know or we just don't want to answer
We understand their confusion and surprise but sometimes it feels weird? Idk. It might just be us being scared of them fakeclaiming us BC we have "too many" alters. They often bring up how high our alter count is but like, we're not sure if it's even that high, we literally only have 118 (maybe more-?) Alters
Though we are a P-DID system which adds onto the stress cause like we're pretty sure P-DID systems have low alter counts usually but we can't fucking tell BC there's hardly any research and we're scared someone's gonna fakeclaim us 😭
-zim
That awkward system moment when you discover a Hidden part of headspace and find who knows how many new alters that you weren't aware of and now you have to spend hours figuring out who they are and making them profiles on simply plural 😭😭😭
-invader zim
Another introduction, yayyyy
Invader zim / wally darling:
Pronouns: he/they/it/xe/paw/cut/bite/ze/cexe/hx/thxy/thing/that one/this one/that/puppet/rot/corpse + (basically any set of neopronouns tbh)
Gender: trans-masc, non-binary + a whole list of xenogenders
Sexuality: aceflux + ???
Role: host & identity helper
Sources: invader zim and welcome home
Partner: dib membrane (in our system)
Interests:
Invader zim (duh), CoD, baby bugs (music artist), cats, bugs, animals, art, singing, animal crossing, pokemon, ark and whatever else, honestly this guy goes from liking things to not caring about them in days 😭
Dislikes:
Endos, pro-endos, non-traumagenics, ect, Loud noises, the cold, rain, water (its scary to this one), work, being bored, social interaction (/hj)
Basic boundaries:
Don't flirt, make sexual jokes, ect with zim, he's taken. Be kind, I guess. Feel free to ask questions about his source, he really enjoys speaking about it (invader zim specifically, he doesn't remember much from welcome home), idk what else to put here now.
Userboxes:
We feel like completing retheming our system but if we did we'd have to change everything including our discord account and we really can't be arsed to do that 😭
Introduction post —
★ system name : the moths nest
★ collective name(s) : moth or bug
★ collective pronouns : he/it/they/xe
★ collective terms : masc , neu & non human
★ alter terms : pupmates , headmates , alters or parts
★ system terms : system or plural
Before you Interact —
★ we have about 500+ pupmates
★ we are a C-DID / polyfragmented system
★ we are pretty sure we have NPD and AvPD with BPD & ASPD traits
★ we may need tone tags sometimes
★ we take criticism as an attack, so if you're going to criticise us please try be as kind as possible because it's hard for us to tell the difference between criticism and insults
Do not interact —
★ endos or pro endos
★ trans-ID or pro trans-ID
★ narc-abuse believers (or any other disordered abuse)
★ those who believe in "doubles"
★ anti recovery IRLs / DAs (we experience delusions and you are not helping)
★ you don't believe in trasnandrophobia
★ basic DNI
I love seeing those posts where people are like “if you have headmates or whatever you should be on meds because that’s not okay” posts. Like neurotypicals just think that there’s some magical pill out there that will ‘cure’ anything they don’t consider ‘normal.’ Meanwhile, in the land of reality, my shrink thinks it’s pretty healthy that I’m finally getting to know my headmates, and has no intention of putting me on magic pills, because as long as I’m not hurting myself or anyone else, who cares what neurotypicals think is ‘normal?’ Actually, let’s be real: who cares what neurotypicals think at all?
so advice. i would ask some of your mind people and see what a general consensus for a theme would be. themes would be like our cat theme, or maybe a name inspired by space. if you give me a theme, i can go look for some words for this first part
then it's the next part. most systems use "system", but there are other words to use.
collective, cluster, clutter, den, pack, team, group, family. you can look up terms for groups of animals to see if anything sticks.
maybe you could get creative too. want something water themed? S.S Gold, perhaps(because it sounds like the name of a boat)
you could also do a joke. nervous system for example, but there might be many who already use that.
and you could do something like the [noun/verb/whatever else]-ers.
- sammy (and maybe mason?)
So, we were going through Simply Plural and trying to update some of our stuff, and we realized that most of us use food/drink emojis as proxies (as yall can probably see in one of our recent posts). So maybe a food/drink/chef-related thing would work? And I kinda want it to have alliteration and be unique. Demo jokingly suggested 'Chaotic Kitchen Crew' which we have added to the beginning of a list of possible system names. We all also really like seafood for some reason. - ☕
river (he/they) and pool (they/it)
Another new alter (cries)
I think it drew it, but I'm not sure. Colours are very yummy though
вибрав-рух-у віці/vybravrukhuvitsi/vitsigenic pride flags
“Vitsigenic is an origin term. It can be headmates who were formerly in one type of system, but has moved to a system of a different type than the headmates own. This can result in the headmates origins changing.” "It can also be for systems whose origins have changed due to headmates formerly from a different system moving in."