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Any other middle children, or younger siblings, feel rage over consistently being referred to as "(insert names) little brother/sister" instead of your name consistently
Caranthir Headcannons
Here is a mix of some of my favourite hc I’ve seen both from others and some if my own (please feel free to add credit where due - I am really sorry but can’t find the original posts to credit hcs that aren’t mine) for Caranthir; I’ve seen this done a few different ways, and I hope this works!
Favourite HC I Found:
Caranthir is very sensitive to (everything) light - especially the super special light the elves originally get, and began his descent into textile-madness after exploring ways to help block out the light
I love this - and personally, though of course elves are different, kind of jump off that to also take him as being either on the spectrum, or spectrum-adjacent, and having his interest in fabric be a way for him to help himself with the sensory issues that can be sooo annoying.
Romantic HC:
He does get married, likely in a more human sense than elves (or a mix of both). I personally think he would have kids, (I know some ship him with Haleth - I don’t particularly mind either way) and the kids and wife would have stayed in his lands, and although it does break my heart, most/all were slain when his lands were destroyed
Craft HC:
Kind of already mentioned, but he would be the textile child (as a textile lover as well, I am likely slightly biased) and would be really good at mixing different fabrics and styles from different species etc
Family HC:
Middle child. Need I say more?
I think he’d feel too much responsibility for the twins and Curi (though of course Feanor would be very involved with Curi, and Mae would be very hands-on with the twins too). I think he would work a lot with Curi though, to help match pieces of jewellery with clothes (esp when making gifts for family)
Extra HC:
I can’t remember who I saw this from - but he wears a LOT of rings. One for each family member, one for himself/his success, his wedding band (though I would like to take the original hc and have his wedding band be his father’s band). I think he probably would never tell his brothers what the rings are for (unless very drunk) and would either have the rings made for him based off of his brothers, get then somehow from his brothers, or some mix. And he has one made for him by Celebrimbor - one of the first things he makes for someone else!
I can’t be mean and grouchy. I’ve got the “other people have it worse” brain. I force a smile constantly because I’m the middle of better and worse (middle child syndrome).
Sometimes I’m mean and grouchy. If you were in pain every waking moment then you’d be mean and grouchy sometimes too.
A genuine question about my own life.
Why is open heart surgery not considered a disability to a majority of places when it’s involved in my every day life to take medication to not self log-out? I had no way to opt out of having this happen to me when I was under 10 and it’s lonely because it’s something so easy to hide until the trauma eats at me once more.
Brain is bubbling of pains.
Sometimes I wonder if being a sibling is just a nice way of saying that every second of love is going to hurt because you would drop everything, uproot your entire life and abandon it, if only your sibling asked for it, if you thought it would help them. Sometimes I think being a sibling means being willing to spend eternity in hell if only it meant your sibling wouldn't have to walk through hell alone.
Sometimes I wonder if being a sibling means suffering in silence and never regretting a second of it if it means your siblings never have to do the same.
Sometimes I wonder if it's just me or if they would also give up everything to help me if only I got up the nerve to ask.
I had a child in my dream but it D*ed in my dream
Just discussing a few dreams I had.
[ I I want to tell you guys this PLEASE tell me if you having crazy dreams I Love love LOVE talking about dreams no matter what they are about and I love the consept of dreams !!!]
So this was a few months ago where I had a dream that I was pregnant (in the 4 or 5 month) and in my dream I knew it would be a girl and I was so existed to have my Baby.
I even prayed to god in my dream and I said: please god give me a girl I'm also happy with a boy but I want my first child to be a girl
Anyway, like I said I was pregnant and I felt that the Baby would come out but like I said it was only the 4 or 5 month (I was also older in my dream alot more older then I am in real live I think I was in my 30s and I am NOT in my 30s) and the Baby came out but like I the Titel says it was dead guys.
I hold the Baby in my hands and it looked like a Baby that was sleeping peacefully but I knew in that moment that my Baby was gone it was also full with blood.
Also it wasn't like a real miscarrige in real life my belly opend up (somehow) and then I was holding my child the next Minute.
It was so sad then I woke up and I was like "where is my child" but then it Hit me and I realised it was just a dream and I was SO SAD i wanted to cry I was so happy in my dream with my child but my child was taken from me in my dream and it was a dream...
One time I dreamed that I had a younger brother and a younger sister but it was in 2 different dreams. (I am the youngest child in my family)
And I swear to god my younger brother was so beautiful he was a sweetheart.
He was an Angel guys and still I am so CRUSHED that he aint real 😭
Even my acual brother interacted with him (I was away but I witnessed my dream in the 3 person it was like I was watching a movie lol)
I was away and my family didn't know where I was and my older brother talked to my younger one and my younger brother was SO worried about me and wanted to know where I was guys he is an Angel he was such a sweetheart
And he looked like me he had a very VERY similar face like I do and he had the same hair as my brother ( I and my acual brother look very alike but my brother in my dream looked even more like me)
Guys he is my Baby like why can't he be real I am so upset I'm not even joking.
And for my sister in my dream my sister looked more like my brother but I and my sister had the same hair but our hair typ is a little different my younger brother and I had the same waves but she had Curly hair and she was so beautiful.
She was soooo playfull and funny mannnnnn
In my dream she fell asleep and my mother Was also in my dream and I carried my sister on my back she was asleep at first but then she woke up and I teased her. (in my dream of my brother my father was there but not my mom and in the one of my sister my mom was there and my acual brother wasn't there)
I also once had a dream where I was pregnant and then had a Baby who (thank god) didn't die in my dream I watched my child grow and the I woke up why is the World so cruel ?!
And one time I was with a random boy who was like 15 or 13 and we where running bc we where playing a game or something idk but it was also cool (In that dream I was also like 13 or 15 BUT I AM NOT 13 -15 I am 18+ and when I had that dream I was also not 13-15 years old I was older)
And in another dream I was holding a Baby and another child was next to me that was like 2 or 3(?) And both where looking at me and I was looking at the Baby and the child in my Arms but the children weren't mine in that dream.
After those dreams I felt so empty but I still love them
Anyways did that ever happend to you guys?
Do you guys have theories?
Please tell me about it Iam so curious!!!!
Thankyou for reading Pookie ♡♡♡ (This helps me coping with what happend)
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For scientific purposes please reblog with where you are in the order of siblings and whether you prefer coffee, tea, or hot chocolate in the tags
Happy Middle Child Day. This is an iconic photo for my family, and no I don't know why I was wearing that.
i am a younger sister so i know the hurt
but i am also an older sister– i understand the rage.
Just a reminder to go thank youre older sister's today cause I've just learnt they do not get enough credit despite practically raising you and they definitely didn't deserve to be treated like adults when they were just kids too. This is comming from a middle child who watched her sister suffer for not being academically gifted despite raising me and my younger sister, when our parents were busy working.
Seriously because they really do not get enough credit in society and no matter how mad and stubborn they are it's what they needed to survive and it took me a while to understand that (ofc if theyre assholes then dont thank them but being the eldest daughter is hard work)
When John said “Ah, middle child, explains it.”
I connected to that on a spiritual level.
if you see this, please reblog with your zodiac sign, if you’re an older/middle/younger sibling or an only child, and the household task you hate doing the most
I’m curious about this so please spill :)
Don’t you just love being the middle child.
-no one cares
-no one listens
-you do all the chores
-never the favourite
-has to live up to expectations
-has to be nice everyday because god forbid anyone of my siblings gets their feelings hurt
Like seriously parents quit being so oblivious to the fact the everyone in the family ignores us.