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its kind of sad that if I, a trans man, decide by my own free will to wear a dress, I have to specifically tell people that I'm not detransitioning. Trans men, boys, mascs, and neutrals can wear feminine shit. Just because we want to be fem doesn't make us suddenly not trans or faking it or whatever the fuck else.
we get to decide how we identify.
not the clothes we wear.
and not you.
trans, intersex and folks of any identity who take HRT (both testosterone & estrogens) please be careful as we enter summer in the northern hemisphere. hormone replacement therapy can cause your body to experience fluctuations in temperature, heat flashes, and changes in experience with ambient temperature. you may notice you're very cold or very hot a lot of the time. please be careful if you are going to be spending a lot of time in the sun, you may be more affected by it for a while as your body adjusts its experience with thermoregulation. we are approaching pride month, enjoy yourselves, but make sure you stay hydrated and don't let yourself overheat when and where possible, as you body may also be purging a lot of electrolytes if you are on spironolactone or are sweating a lot.
*Screaming at my enby non passing transasc ass* YES. A MILLION TIMES THANK YOU.
I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.
I wanna share my detailed identity, because I normally present myself with my three main labels (lesbian, aroace and genderfluid) and why not?
I am:
Trans.
Trans non-binary.
Transneu (neutral vers. of transmasc/transfem).
Genderqueer.
Genderfluid.
Sapphic.
Lesbian.
Asexual.
Aromantic.
Bellusromantic.
Aroace.
And I'm thinking about creating a xenogender, but I'm afraid it wouldn't work, because xenogenders are more like metaphors of the gender, and the one I'd like to create is more of a protest, a “fuck you” to transphobes based off a scientific fact.
reblog if you are LGBTQIA+!
we will march together!!!!!
Parasitogender/Parasitegender
Parasitogender, or Parasitegender: A xenogender that is described more like gender affirming against cisnormativity than a gender metaphor, like classic xenogenders. Is based off of a scientifical fact that recognizes that the pregnant body doesn't primarily sees the fetus as a baby or as something good, but as a parasite, it being the reason why so many couples have difficulties and struggle while getting a baby or why miscarriages are pretty common (noting that is also the reason why miscarriages are also called “spontaneous abortion”).
This xenogender can also be described with a form of resistance against patriarchy and it's cisnormativity, by finally accepting the duty/mission of destroying it completely; by being a threat, a menace or a parasite to the system and it's structure.
Okay, so, do y'all remember that one post where I said I was thinking about creating a xenogender, but I was unsure about it because it was not like the classic xenogenders? If you're seeing this now, it's because I finally got courage to post it adagrhdjtvsjrv XP
But, anyway, what is this xenogender in specific? Well, it's pretty complicated, but like in the first description is a identity reaffirming xenogender and/or a anti patriarchy and anti cisnormativity xenogender.
“Angel, how did you got this idea?” The first moment I heard the fact that we are basically parasites on our mother's (or father's/parent's, if you were generated in a non girly uterus) body, I instantly created an inside joke of mine:
“Well, if it's like this, than I'm nobody is biologically a man nor a woman, were biologically parasites, lmao”
And this tiny inside joke turned into something more: Like something that could be totally used against transphobes, in a way of mockery or pirraça (in english: tantrum in a annoying manner). I mean that could be perfect.
And getting this together with the fact that society doesn't even see us as humans, but as some kind of mental illness or a verminosis, we could be easily use this label and be like:
“You know what? Yeah, I am a mental illness. And my first symptom is burning your fat ass bigotry in hell. Say goodbye, bitch. *Insert gunshots.*"
And, stopping to think, it makes sense for this to be a completely valid xenogender, even if it's not a gender metaphor. Because it kind of shows that transphobes are actually pretty stupid and only use biology when it's convenient for them and for this oppressive system. So, what is better than being a parasite with the objective of ruining this hierarchy to make the world a better place for everyone?
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TRANS JOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! reblog if you agree
Literally me???? When I'm a trans lesbian, I am the juice of patriarchy with glitter (yes, a radfem deadass called the trans community glitter patriarchy) and a fucking threat to women's safety and lesbian culture, but when I'm a trans lesbian who was born with a uterus I am just a “poor little girl groomed into internalised misogyny”, like.... Bitch, chill out I'm just genderfluid and genderqueer. 🥲
Sooo weird how when people interpret me as a gay trans man they think I’m a perverted women with a fetish trying to rape gay men but if I’m interpreted as a straight trans man they think I’m a poor butch lesbian who was indoctrinated by the trans agenda….
Like what if I’m just some guy. Why do I have to be a pervert or victim. Why can’t I just be a person.
To all the trans people worried about how you’ll be treated once you’re just bones:
Anthropology has known about gender diversity for decades, centuries even. And the newer archaeologists are taught that the most we can test for with hard sciences is your sex. Not your gender. We can figure out if you’re intersex, but also as science will evolve, we’ll also know if you took hormones (bone density and characteristics), implants don’t degrade, your burial clothes will probably be synthetic, we’ll notice your hair length, what you’re buried with, maybe even the markers you left behind.
And there will be a good chance someone trans (even better just queer in general) will look at your file. Your data and artifacts, and see themself in you. Catch that you are their elder, and help aid the identification of your gender.
There’s a good chance you’ll be seen, and if not then that’s okay, because the people handling you will know better than to assume wrong.
The terf pipeline that assigned female at birth trans folks are just “little girls with internalised misogyny and want to be males to escape misogyny” is bullshit! Feat. My experience as an afab transneutral person.
Hi, everyone! For those who don't know me, my name is Angel and I go by all pronouns (neos & xenos included), and welcome to this simple, but big, post.
I think everyone knows the radfems, also known as terfs. You know, these women whose feminism is just transphobia, racism, ableism, generalisation of womanhood and plain exclusion of anyone who isn't a cishet, white, middle to high class women. Maybe, a little bit of queer women, but only in their criteria.
And I think everyone here knows on their infantilization of trans men and assigned female at birth trans people in general. They always say: “Oh, poor little girl, consumed by outside and internalised misogyny, so she tries to be male so she can try to live happily!! =((”
And I say, bullshit, bullshit, FUCKING BULLSHIT! Talking from experience, even!
You see, even though I was raised and socialized as a girl... I didn't experience that much of misogyny. Hell, probably not at all.
“Omg, that's impossible, how would you do that?” Rapunzel. That's the secret, I lived and live to this day like Rapunzel.
I don't go out to stores that often, I only have one way on my daily basis: Home → School → Home. That's it, that's all it. This is how my life goes since forever.
And when I go out somewhere, I'm 9/10 times around one of my parents or my brother. So, my chances of getting catcalled, s/a'd or something are quite low.
I am a hyper protected kid, that's why I am a pussy. And while my mom was mean and a bigot in general in many points of my adolescence, she had enough sense to not be misogynistic throughout my childhood (things started to go wrong in my life, between me and her, when I started to show signs of non-cisgenderness and gender non conformity, to summarize).
And that gave me time to discover my identity without women hating structure of patriarchal society on the way (gender imposition on max.). In fact, I was reluctant to accept that I identified in a masculine way sometimes, because cis femininity (and probably some internalised transphobia) was too impregnated on my brain, at that point. So when I started to feel side effects of an misogynist society, my identity was already constructed, I already knew who I was, so misogyny couldn't really play a role in it.
To give y'all an idea, the first time I've ever been a victim of misogyny was in 2023, when I was 15, close to turning 16 years old, and I was getting romantically harassed by a boy (he changed schools, so I won't see that nigga's face ever again, THANK YOU LORD 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽) and that same muthafucka went on to say, in the middle of class, that women bad and they be the reason why we fail (based off that fucking Adam and Eve story, btw), directed at everyone who was read as a girl in that class, aka all the girls of my class and me. And, since I'm closeted, I had no choice but only be disgusted at that remark of his.
But, key word, disgusted. Not guilty, not deeply affected like any normal woman would; But disgusted. Because misogyny is disgusting to everyone who's not a misogynistic.
See where I'm getting into? My first contacts with what is misogyny in practice came too late to be experienced from a girl's perspective. Maybe from a fem presenting perspective, since I'm closeted, but I only can view it from a transgender perspective, now.
My transgender identity cannot be affected deeply by misogyny now, because misogyny came too late.
And that's not a case only for me, but for many other trans minors. Many trans kids understand that they diverge from the gender they were assigned at birth, even before getting a grasp of misogyny and/or gender related violence, even when they don't even know the existence of the word trans.
So, in conclusion, transness is not a result of internalised misogyny, but being a nasty girl who dismiss other girls just to get male appreciation is (and not only that, tho, patriarchy has many faces other than just sexual violence).
Bye!!! =3
The terf pipeline that assigned female at birth trans folks are just “little girls with internalised misogyny and want to be males to escape misogyny” is bullshit! Feat. My experience as an afab transneutral person.
Hi, everyone! For those who don't know me, my name is Angel and I go by all pronouns (neos & xenos included), and welcome to this simple, but big, post.
I think everyone knows the radfems, also known as terfs. You know, these women whose feminism is just transphobia, racism, ableism, generalisation of womanhood and plain exclusion of anyone who isn't a cishet, white, middle to high class women. Maybe, a little bit of queer women, but only in their criteria.
And I think everyone here knows on their infantilization of trans men and assigned female at birth trans people in general. They always say: “Oh, poor little girl, consumed by outside and internalised misogyny, so she tries to be male so she can try to live happily!! =((”
And I say, bullshit, bullshit, FUCKING BULLSHIT! Talking from experience, even!
You see, even though I was raised and socialized as a girl... I didn't experience that much of misogyny. Hell, probably not at all.
“Omg, that's impossible, how would you do that?” Rapunzel. That's the secret, I lived and live to this day like Rapunzel.
I don't go out to stores that often, I only have one way on my daily basis: Home → School → Home. That's it, that's all it. This is how my life goes since forever.
And when I go out somewhere, I'm 9/10 times around one of my parents or my brother. So, my chances of getting catcalled, s/a'd or something are quite low.
I am a hyper protected kid, that's why I am a pussy. And while my mom was mean and a bigot in general in many points of my adolescence, she had enough sense to not be misogynistic throughout my childhood (things started to go wrong in my life, between me and her, when I started to show signs of non-cisgenderness and gender non conformity, to summarize).
And that gave me time to discover my identity without women hating structure of patriarchal society on the way (gender imposition on max.). In fact, I was reluctant to accept that I identified in a masculine way sometimes, because cis femininity (and probably some internalised transphobia) was too impregnated on my brain, at that point. So when I started to feel side effects of an misogynist society, my identity was already constructed, I already knew who I was, so misogyny couldn't really play a role in it.
To give y'all an idea, the first time I've ever been a victim of misogyny was in 2023, when I was 15, close to turning 16 years old, and I was getting romantically harassed by a boy (he changed schools, so I won't see that nigga's face ever again, THANK YOU LORD 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽) and that same muthafucka went on to say, in the middle of class, that women bad and they be the reason why we fail (based off that fucking Adam and Eve story, btw), directed at everyone who was read as a girl in that class, aka all the girls of my class and me. And, since I'm closeted, I had no choice but only be disgusted at that remark of his.
But, key word, disgusted. Not guilty, not deeply affected like any normal woman would; But disgusted. Because misogyny is disgusting to everyone who's not a misogynistic.
See where I'm getting into? My first contacts with what is misogyny in practice came too late to be experienced from a girl's perspective. Maybe from a fem presenting perspective, since I'm closeted, but I only can view it from a transgender perspective, now.
My transgender identity cannot be affected deeply by misogyny now, because misogyny came too late.
And that's not a case only for me, but for many other trans minors. Many trans kids understand that they diverge from the gender they were assigned at birth, even before getting a grasp of misogyny and/or gender related violence, even when they don't even know the existence of the word trans.
So, in conclusion, transness is not a result of internalised misogyny, but being a nasty girl who dismiss other girls just to get male appreciation is (and not only that, tho, patriarchy has many faces other than just sexual violence).
Bye!!! =3
H. Melt, “There Are Trans People Here” (2021)
welcome to my food blog i guess. transgender oreo
I think being transneutral is so funny and is so real to me.
GUUUYYYSSS, GUYSGUYSGUYSGUYSGUYS-
I think I finally found my name. I FINALLY FOUND OUT A NAME THAT FITS ME AND HAS THAT TCHAN, AND- AAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Btw, it's Angelle. Pronounced in a more Brazilian Portuguese manner, just like when a brazilian says Angelo/Angela but with an E at the end, hope this ain't confusing.
But even if it is, it's irrelevant, cuz it literally sounds so poetic, like I am a cozy, wise, writer who is also a philosopher and a sociologist historian who also does art and can only describe life experiences like we are in a Machado de Assis's story. Specially when paired with my last names, omg, how I missed my name being connected and coherent to my last name.
And can we please talk about the sensation to finally find a name that matches both you and your last name?
Hdsghsvabsuabsfanfab, me is so happeh <3
Had I known you could be AFAB and transfem, maybe all those times I felt connected to the label wouldn't have caused so much self doubt.