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Sending you so much love!💛

You’re strong and you’ll get through whatever you’re struggling with right now!

And if you EVER need someone to talk, my inbox is always open!

(That goes for everyone who’s having a hard time, if you need to talk, I’m here!)

Hey uh so

This is my official one-note-one-day post.

I just- I don’t know what I’m hoping will happen just that I won’t almost die or want to die everyday.

I’ve just been not okay.

POV: you’ve been the main character

I'm the slowest writer to ever exist, because I'm 95% paralyzed by perfectionism and anxiety. I get so in my head that I labor over single sentences for days. Sometimes weeks. A single 160 character tweet takes me at least an hour to write and rewrite ten times. Despite that, since 2012, I've written four full length novels, two novellas, and 460k words of fanfiction, which amounts to another six and a half novels.

Was all of that stuff good? Listen, my first two novels are fucking unreadable. The rest? Depends on who you ask. But whether they're good isn't the point. I wrote them. Letter by letter. Word by word. Sentence by goddamn sentence. I don't think you can do it, I fucking know you can, because I somehow managed it with a brain that spends most of its waking hours punching itself in the face, like the world's dumbest bully.

I'm not gonna tell you to believe in yourself. For someone filled with insecurity or self-loathing, believing in yourself can feel as far away as the moon. Much too distant to even contemplate. So no, you don't have to believe in yourself. You just have to keep going, no matter how you feel about you. You can be motivated by all kinds of things. Personally, I'm a big fan of spite. I will write because I was told not to write. I will write because I have a one-sided battle in my mind with everyone who ever doubted me, called me names, hit me, or treated me like I didn't have value.

Long story long, I believe in you, even if you don't. So, just fucking do the thing. Because you can.

I know you can.

You know what? I believe that you can finish your writing project. I believe you can update your fic. I believe you can work on your WIP. I don't care if you think it's cringy or bad. I don't care if we've never met or interacted in our whole lives. I believe in you. Keep going - you've got this.

Dear everyone who is currently working on a Thing, whatever that Thing may be,

Good luck with the Thing. You can do the Thing. You will do the Thing. You just have to do the Thing.

Best wishes,

Someone who is also doing a Thing

This is for anyone that has a thought of giving up… Don’t you do it… You’ve got this… God hasn’t brought you this far to leave you now!!!

Now get on up, and go have a Fantastic Friday ❤️

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY!!!!

STAY STRONG GIRLS WE’VE GOT THIS I LOVE YOU DON’T LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN YOU ARE STRONG AND YOU CAN DO ANYTHING U SET YOUR MIND TO!!!! NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY OR DO, JUST  PICK YOURSELF UP AND PROVE THEM WRONG

i've been a smoker from the tender age of 17 (almost a decade now!! woah) and recently decided to quit. today marks a full week since my last cigarette... tiny little milestone for me :--)

Hi-

To be honest, I really struggle with self-doubt sometimes. And because of that, I’m always searching for some sort of praise to lift my spirits, even if it’s just for a minute. Because if I don’t, my criticism and thoughts slow me down, until I’ve dug a grave of negativity that I lay in, usually for weeks. And it’s just as hard to get out of that pit as it is to get your grades back up. And even though I get all this love and support from my family and you guys, most times, I distort those words of love into something that makes me think that I could have done better. I wholeheartedly believe that this message applies to most people, because it is only human that we put ourselves down, so that we can improve. And it’s inevitable. We can’t help it, we’re just wired that way.

Recently, I’ve really tried to let go of my perfectionism, and it’s been a struggle. For these things that I’ve been telling myself for years have been permanently cemented into my day to day thought process.

But it all leads to growth.

In some way or another, you and I will improve and change drastically. Albeit, a very long and slow process, if you’re able to look back today, and just take a moment, take a breath, and just think of all the things you’ve done, all the beautiful people you’ve met, all the culture you’ve witnessed….Though you may not think it, or feel it (I know I don’t), we are amazing. Truly graceful in what we are passionate about, and what we’re capable of doing well. Please, take this message and remind yourself as much as you can, that you actually are enough. You’re right where you need to be.

You are right where you need to be.

i never thought this day would come, and now that it has it feels surreal, almost. in the shuffle of one of the worst years of my life, i had a breakthrough that i've needed to be honest with myself about for years and years. In a way, the bad things made way for room to grow and i hope it will even be room to flourish.

i cant wait to start my hrt and become who i was always supposed to be 🏳️‍⚧️

Corrected this quote:) Everything is going to be ok