And It's Okay! - Tumblr Posts
everybodys gotta get back into the practice of using pseudonyms online... i remember the time of screen names where u never ever told anyone ur real name and that was just understood as basic internet safety. plus having a screen name is fun because sometimes it sticks so well that it becomes part of ur identity that u can use in whatever facet of ur life you choose. it rocks to pick your own name
Y’all, I’m either very blind or oblivious because I didn’t realize us Madney fans were being called annoying. I was so confused, I mean I know not everyone is going to like the same ships or characters, but dang, to start attacking people or sending disheartening messages and such is not okay. I cannot stress that enough.
But people really think we are the annoying ones? Nope, not in the slightest.
When are people going to finally open thier eyes and see it’s okay for people to like who they want, and it’s okay that others may hate that character? Why can’t people just appreciate that everyone has a ship or character they like and stop the drama and attacking? I really can’t fathom why fans in a fandom work against each other.
Yes I’m saying this from a Madney point of view because that is my favorite ship, and yes Maddie is my favorite character; it was just going to be a given. Jennifer is the whole reason I started watching the show, because I watched Ghost Whisperer first back in 2020 and then wanted to watch something else with her in it. Just because I love Madney though doesn’t mean I don’t like other ships and characters. I’m not gonna lie I’m 50/50 on Buddie, like I wouldn’t be mad if they got together in the show but I’m also not going to be mad if they don’t. I really don’t mind Buddie, and I even include the ship occasionally in the stories I’ve been writing for Madney; I’m not shoving any other ships aside—same with Bobby/Athena and Hen/Karen.
But I do have to say some Buddie fans out their are hella crazy. I’m sorry, but you guys really need to stop and just take a moment to revaluate. I’m obviously not naming names, I would never do that, but I literally saw a comment under a Buddie story, the writer hating Ana, and the commenter hating Ana saying they hope she gets punched in the face because she deserved it—probably from whatever happened in the story, that was written out of character. Like, what? Y’all are really that extreme? Ana never did anything on the show but ruin the fact Buck couldn’t get with Eddie. That’s really how I see it. But that is how tv works. Sometimes your ships work out, sometimes they don’t, and sometimes it takes seasons of building up a relationship and the characters being with other people before you can finally see them together. (For anyone who watches NCIS: LA, think of Kensi and Deeks, who weren’t official until season 6 but you could see the sparks fly in the 3rd season? I think, Idk if it was 2 or 3. One of them.)
I’m not saying you guys should stop shipping, I would never. I am personally glad that everyone has a ship they like, even if it isn’t canon yet.
If you like Eddie with Buck, good for you.
If you like Eddie with Ana, good for you.
If you like Eddie with Shannon, good for you.
If you like Taylor with Buck, good for you.
If you like Buck with Abby, good for you.
If you like Bobby with Athena, good for you.
If you like Hen with Karen, good for you.
If you like Maddie with Chimney, good for you.
If you like Buck with TK, good for you.
If you like Buck with Bobby, good for you.
If you like Buck with Albert, good for you.
If you like Buck with Josh, good for you.
If you like Buck with Jay Halstead from Chicago PD, good for you.
If you like Buck with Kelly Severide from Chicago Fire, good for you.
If you like Buck with Tim Bradford from The Rookie, good for you.
If you like Buck with a reader insert, good for you.
If you like any mismatch of characters with any other character, either in 9-1-1 or not, good 👏🏼 for 👏🏼 you.
(I believe these are the main ones I’ve seen, I’m definitely missing some, but you guys get the point.)
There are a few ships on this list which I could never see in a million years, but, does that mean I don’t support you liking that ship? Hell no! I like my ship and I scream it, but I’m also sitting at the sidelines screaming for all of you as well, because I’m happy everyone has found a pairing they enjoy.
So please stop going after people who either don’t like your ship or the characters you like. I know it can get agitating and annoying because you just want to see your ship on the screen, and I hate to say for some it won’t happen, and that’s why we have fanfic in the first place, but please don’t attack anyone. It may be especially upsetting to some fans that maybe just don’t like Madney, and that’s okay, that us fans have our ship on screen and you don’t, and I’m sorry for that. If I could give everyone their ship on screen I would, in a heartbeat.
At the end of the day guys we may not have the same like in characters or ships, but we all love the show they put together. Isn’t that enough, that we get to have this amazing show in the first place?
I’m sorry for the long rant, but I just wanted to get my opinion out because there have been certain things bugging me since I got into the fandom and started seeing/hearing things.
I also just want to address really quick there is a difference in asking and attacking. It’s okay to genuinely be curious and ask someone nicely why they don’t like your ship or certain ships/characters, and I think most of us would be happy to have a civil conversation about why. It’s another thing to go on the defense and be rude and start name calling. Not okay, very disrespectful, and it shows who you are as a person.
Thank you, im honoured
im not familiar with that movie but ive heard of its homosexuality
Hello hi, first and foremost, I don't wanna get in an argument over this extremely petty issue 😭😭 so let's keep it as light hearted as possible pls and maybe don't drag your other friends into this? We can discuss it without others getting involved unnecessarily lmao 💀
I already viewed your DM as criticism since the beginning and will be putting into use, don't worry about that at all
I was 100% not trying to project it so I don't understand why you're implying it like it is true? I could be minterpreting this. I explicitly said I was still learning, whether or not that makes a difference, it's up to you. But to me it does, I am still in the process of understanding the curves and folds. Especially clothing curves on chubbier people, which was the main reason why rose's anatomy basically disappeared 💀
Learning takes a lot of time especially if it's new and I feel like you never gave me that time to grow before I was criticized.
About that rose artwork from 4 years ago, girl wasn't all that deep tbh 😭
This was the artwork, it was a simple bust shot. I never drew her anatomy at all 💀💀 so clearly, I never got to learn her anatomy LOL
My main issue wasn't the criticism itself, but rather how the message was worded
You made it seem like I had nothing else better to do with my life? Like my only purpose was to draw? My worth is only deemed on what my hands can do and that's pretty dehumanising tbh. 💀 saying "it doesn't seem you didn't put it the time or effort" is low-key mean, especially since I've been told that for most of my life. It brought back war flashbacks 😭😭😭 that's the only reason why I reacted so vehemently. And it makes me sadder knowing our first interaction is with hostility and I never wanted to be that way.
The main reason why I edited the artwork was to at least put it into practice. Nothing more, nothing less. If you don't like it even then, it's okay I wasn't going to force you. I, at least, wanted to show I understood the issue.
The way you said it would be more convenient if i drew chubbier people because I fit into the type is sweet, I understand this comes from a place where I can learn to love myself, however this won't be true because i will always hate myself no matter if i was skinny or not LMAO
Kara with the other babies
Hi guys happy new year :) this is the last post for 2023 and I hope 2024 doesn't make me kms 😍
Kara and Markus were inspired by the fact they have the same bird appear in their story lmfao and just their chemistry tbh 😭
Kara and Rose because I love them both :( I literally fall in love with any woman I see
Kara + Alice and Connor because I wanted to include him in the set :) because it would be mean if I didn't lmao 😭 I wanted to try something different with them, it went out alright (also hunter versus prey dynamic 👀) I like the way Con's hair turned tbh 😭
Some silly dbh stuff coming next year btw :3
Happy new year ‼️‼️