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Do you know, the enormous test of your Sabr is when you have to forgive yourself. The heaviest weight you'll ever carry is when you'll lift yourself up. When you decide to give yourself chance and learn that you are the only person who wouldn't give up on you.
We think, forgiving others is hard. No, when love comes, forgiveness complies. When hatred comes, forgiveness becomes a necessity. But for your own being, forgiveness weighs a ton. The fragility of your broken soul makes it weary of acceptance. That you have committed a mistake. The love you had for yourself, evaporates with the sin. Hatred seeps in. And it blinds you of all the battles you've won in your life until now.
Picking your broken parts and just holding them even aches. It's like, you're laying paralysed with the heart with your mind cursing you, your body too exhausted to get up and soul weeping bitterly. You despise this sorry site. But, you cannot die in this misery either. You wait for some aid, some hold to grab on, some relief, someone who can gather you but find none. But Allah. You're ashamed to turn back to the One you've disobeyed. But, now, do you have anyone else besides Him? You won't find any refuge besides Him.
So, limping and crawling, you stand on your knees before Him. With all the guilt n remorse. Again. And Again. You beg Him to grant you the courage to forgive your own soul. You remember that He loves to forgive you, so you, despite all the reasons to give up, decide not to give up. Just because He has granted you time, to repent and correct your wrongs. And you decide to choose yourself over self hatred. The one inside you, who didn't know better, you forgive her...and ask Allah to heal the one hurting inside you. It takes a lot of strength. But this is all you've been doing..this is all what you know to do...and you'll need a life-size forgiveness for it.
~ mashriqiyyah
The Door of Hope
Photo by Iarlaith McNamara on Pexels.com A wise friend of mine recently wrote that Christmas and the holidays can bring up all kinds of emotions in us. There are cherished memories of the past with loved ones who are no longer on the earth plane, and deaths, or relationship break ups that took place on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. With most of us there is a resilience that comes after an…
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Beginning from Almost Dying
Photo by Breakingpic on Pexels.com “When adults say, “Teenagers think they are invincible” with that sly, stupid smile on their faces, they don’t know how right they are. We need never be hopeless, because we can never be irreparably broken. We think that we are invincible because we are. We cannot be born, and we cannot die. Like all energy, we can only change shapes and sizes and…
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A Simple Act of Forgiveness
Updated from 2012 “Every sunset is an opportunity to reset.”— Richie Norton This was one of my first posts when I began blogging. I don’t think many of you have seen this unless you did a search or you scrolled back to read all my posts. It provides a spiritual tool that gives you freedom in your life, in particular, as we celebrate the 4th of July every year. Is this another one of ‘those’…
The fear of telling someone, someone who you are supposed to trust and confide in, the truth because you know deep down they're not as trustworthy as the script made of them in your head. But because of them you know when you have a true loved one when the fear isn't present with them. When you can speak your mind without a single fear of being judged and attacked, even if they don't have the same opinion as you. And it's even better when they are truthful with you too, because of how your truth has been pushed away in a corner, you want to hear their truth as much as you want yours to be acknowledged.
So thank you, for giving me that fear. Because now that I have overcome it I have a better appreciation for the truth and I love the truth of others even if I don't agree with it or have the same truth.
Because of you I have found how to trust my truth.
How to find comfort in the realness of the world, however terrible.
Even though what you did was terrible and it hurt, you made me into the person I am today.
Thank you. I finally forgive you.
Shadows of Forgiveness
Seated alone in an Italian restaurant, I overhear laughter from a nearby table. I glance over and catch sight of a young couple, their resemblance to a past I've fought to bury stirring up bittersweet memories. Tentatively, I watch as they share tender moments, a pang of nostalgia tugging at my heartstrings.
Returning to my meal, a wave of uncertainty crashes over me. My past relationships, a tangled mess of disappointment and heartache, weigh heavily on my mind. Swirling my fettuccine, I confront the lingering doubts and insecurities that haunt me. Can I ever truly forgive myself for the mistakes of the past?
The truth eludes me, buried beneath layers of self-doubt and regret. Despite my efforts to move forward, I find myself trapped in a cycle of pain and self-blame. But with each passing moment, I muster the courage to confront my inner demons and entertain the possibility of self-forgiveness.
Contemplating the road ahead fills me with trepidation. Can I shed the weight of the past and embrace a future defined by self-love and acceptance? It's a daunting endeavor, fraught with uncertainty and possibility.
But today, amidst the doubts, I make a solemn vow to myself. I will unburden myself of resentment and open my heart to a future illuminated by love and compassion. With a hesitant smile, I rise from my seat, prepared to embark on the journey toward self-forgiveness.
Stepping out into the night, I offer a silent word of thanks to the young couple who unknowingly sparked this moment of clarity. As I climb into my truck, a deafening alarm jolts me awake, reminding me of the distance between dreams and reality.
In the darkness of my room, I'm left grappling with the unsettling truth: to live authentically, I must confront my own self-doubt and learn to forgive myself. Though the path ahead may be fraught with challenges, it's a journey I'm determined to undertake.
The Fragile Thread: Can Trust Be Restored After Betrayal?
Can trust be restored once it's broken, or is it forever damaged? This question lingers in the hearts and minds of many who have experienced betrayal. Trust, the fragile thread that binds relationships, can be ripped to pieces in an instant but takes a lifetime to build. When that bond is broken, the pain and disillusionment can feel insurmountable, leading one to wonder if the pieces can ever be put back together.
Rebuilding trust requires immense effort from both parties. It demands honesty, transparency, and a willingness to confront uncomfortable truths. The one who broke the trust must show genuine remorse and a commitment to change, while the one who was betrayed must find the strength to forgive and the patience to rebuild. This process is neither quick nor easy; it is fraught with setbacks and requires continuous effort and reassurance.
However, some believe that once trust is broken, it can never truly be restored. The shadow of doubt lingers, and the fear of being hurt again can overshadow any attempts at reconciliation. The relationship, though it may continue, is forever altered, marked by an invisible scar that serves as a constant reminder of the past. Trust, once lost, might be irreparably damaged, leaving both parties to navigate a new, uncertain dynamic.
Ultimately, whether trust can be fully restored or remains forever fractured depends on the individuals involved and the depth of the betrayal. Some relationships emerge stronger, having faced and overcome their darkest moments. Others, however, may find that the chasm created by broken trust is too wide to bridge, leading them to part ways or redefine their connection. The answer lies not in a universal truth, but in the unique journey of each relationship.
"Forgive yourself for the mistakes you made and the mistakes you didn't make."
— where shadows live
Ho'oponopono: The Ancient Hawaiian Healing Practice for Inner Harmony
Shaina Tranquilino
November 3, 2023
In today's fast-paced world, it is easy to get caught up in the chaos and stress of our daily lives. We often find ourselves overwhelmed by negative emotions, past traumas, and relationships that need healing. However, amidst this turmoil, an ancient Hawaiian practice called Ho'oponopono offers us a powerful method to restore balance and harmony within ourselves and our relationships. What is Ho'oponopono? Ho'oponopono (pronounced HO-oh-pono-pono) is a traditional Hawaiian practice that means "to make right" or "to rectify an error." It is deeply rooted in the belief that everything in the universe is interconnected and that we are responsible for our own experiences – not only individually but also collectively. At its core, Ho'oponopono aims to heal and cleanse any disharmony within oneself while promoting forgiveness, reconciliation, and restoration of relationships with others. How does it work? According to the teachings of Ho'oponopono, everything we experience originates from within ourselves. By taking responsibility for our thoughts, actions, and reactions towards events and people around us, we can begin to heal from deep-seated wounds. This practice shifts the focus away from blaming others or external circumstances and directs it inwardly towards self-reflection. The Four Key Phrases of Ho'oponopono: 1. I'm sorry (Kala) Admitting mistakes or acknowledging one's contribution to a problem is crucial in initiating the process of healing through Ho'oponopono. Saying "I'm sorry" doesn't necessarily mean you have done something wrong; rather, it signifies your willingness to take responsibility for creating harmony. 2. Please forgive me (Makala) Asking for forgiveness demonstrates humility and vulnerability. By recognizing our own shortcomings and seeking forgiveness, we open the door for healing and transformation. 3. Thank you (Mahalo) Expressing gratitude is a powerful tool in Ho'oponopono as it helps us shift our focus from negativity to appreciation. Gratitude allows us to find blessings even in challenging situations, fostering inner peace and harmony. 4. I love you (Aloha) Love is the ultimate healer in Ho'oponopono. By sincerely offering love to ourselves and others involved in a conflict or challenge, we release negative energy and invite compassion, empathy, and understanding into our lives. How to Practice Ho'oponopono: 1. Find a quiet space: Set aside some time where you can be alone without distractions. 2. Reflect on the issue: Identify an area of your life that needs healing or a relationship that requires reconciliation. 3. Repeat the four key phrases: While focusing on the issue at hand, repeat each phrase – "I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you" – either silently or out loud. Allow yourself to feel the emotions associated with these words. 4. Visualize healing: Imagine the situation being transformed into one of perfect harmony and wellbeing. See all parties involved releasing any negative feelings and embracing forgiveness. 5. Repeat regularly: Make Ho'oponopono a regular practice, allowing it to become an integral part of your daily routine. Regularly revisiting this process will strengthen your ability to heal deep-seated wounds and maintain healthy relationships. Ho'oponopono offers us a profound opportunity for personal growth, emotional healing, and restoration of relationships within ourselves and with others. By taking responsibility for our experiences through humble acknowledgment, sincere apologies, gratitude, and heartfelt love, we can foster inner harmony while creating positive ripples in the world around us. Remember that change takes time; practicing Ho'oponopono consistently will gradually transform your mindset, allowing you to embrace forgiveness, compassion, and love more readily. Embrace the power of Ho'oponopono and discover its transformative potential within yourself and in the relationships that matter most to you.
A Life of Learning Shaina Tranquilino June 1, 2024 In the grand classroom of Earth School, every day presents us with new lessons. Unlike traditional educational systems, Earth School offers an immersive curriculum that goes beyond textbooks and tests. Here, we learn not only with our minds but also with our hearts and souls. This education, though less formal, is profoundly transformative, shaping who we are and how we navigate the world.
Embracing the Journey
From the moment we are born, Earth School enrolls us in its endless journey of learning. Our first lessons come from our immediate environment. We learn to trust, to love, and to communicate, guided by the nurturing presence of our caregivers. As we grow, our interactions expand, and with them, the complexity of our lessons.
Lessons of the Heart
Compassion: One of the most fundamental lessons Earth School teaches is compassion. Through our interactions with others, we learn to feel and understand the emotions of those around us. Whether it's through the joy of a friend's success or the sorrow of a neighbor's loss, these experiences open our hearts and teach us the value of empathy.
Forgiveness: Another vital lesson is forgiveness. Holding onto anger and resentment can be a heavy burden. Through the trials and tribulations of relationships, we learn that forgiveness is not about excusing bad behavior but about freeing ourselves from the chains of negativity. This lesson often comes with time and reflection, teaching us to let go and move forward with a lighter heart.
Love: Perhaps the most powerful lesson of all is love. Love comes in many forms—romantic love, familial love, friendship, and even self-love. Each form teaches us about connection, vulnerability, and the beauty of giving and receiving love unconditionally. Love is the foundation upon which all other lessons are built, the ultimate expression of our humanity.
Lessons of the Soul
Resilience: Life is filled with challenges, and Earth School provides countless opportunities to develop resilience. Through personal losses, failures, and hardships, we learn to adapt, to pick ourselves up, and to keep going. Resilience is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and a crucial lesson for navigating the ups and downs of life.
Purpose: Finding one's purpose is a profound journey of the soul. Earth School encourages us to explore our passions, our talents, and our dreams. This exploration often requires introspection and the courage to pursue what truly matters to us. In discovering our purpose, we find meaning and fulfillment, guiding us towards a life that feels both intentional and rewarding.
Connection: Beyond the physical, Earth School teaches us about our connection to the greater whole. This might be through moments of awe in nature, the realization of the interconnectedness of all life, or spiritual practices that transcend the mundane. These lessons remind us that we are part of something larger, fostering a sense of belonging and peace.
The Lifelong Student
In Earth School, we are lifelong students. There are no diplomas or graduation ceremonies, only continuous growth and discovery. Every experience, every person we meet, every challenge we face, contributes to our education. This perspective encourages us to embrace life with curiosity and openness, recognizing that each moment holds the potential for learning.
Earth School's education of the heart and soul is a beautiful, intricate journey. It shapes us into compassionate, resilient, and purpose-driven beings, connected deeply with ourselves and the world around us. As we navigate through this grand school, let us remember to cherish the lessons, embrace the growth, and honor the profound wisdom we gain along the way.
Embracing Life with an Open Heart: A Journey to Greater Consciousness Shaina Tranquilino July 25, 2024
In a world that often feels rushed and disconnected, cultivating an open heart can be a transformative practice. To approach life with an open heart is to embrace a mindset that welcomes vulnerability, compassion, and a deeper connection with oneself and others. It is an invitation to greater consciousness, where the barriers of fear and judgment dissolve, making way for authentic relationships and a profound sense of inner peace.
What Does It Mean to Have an Open Heart?
Having an open heart means being willing to experience life fully, with all its joys and sorrows, without shutting down or becoming defensive. It's about:
Vulnerability: Allowing yourself to be seen as you truly are, without masks or pretenses. This means embracing your imperfections and being honest about your feelings.
Compassion: Cultivating empathy and kindness towards yourself and others. It's about understanding that everyone is fighting their own battles and showing gentleness in your interactions.
Presence: Being fully engaged in the present moment, rather than being caught up in past regrets or future anxieties. An open heart is mindful and attentive.
The Path to Greater Consciousness
When we open our hearts, we open the door to a higher state of consciousness. This journey involves several key steps:
Self-Awareness: Developing an understanding of your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. This self-awareness allows you to recognize when you are closing your heart due to fear or pain.
Acceptance: Embracing yourself and others as they are, without trying to change or control them. Acceptance is the foundation of unconditional love.
Letting Go: Releasing past hurts, grudges, and the need for control. Letting go frees you from the burdens that weigh down your heart and mind.
Gratitude: Focusing on the positive aspects of life and being thankful for the present moment. Gratitude shifts your perspective and opens your heart to the abundance around you.
Benefits of an Open Heart
Living with an open heart brings numerous benefits, both to your inner world and your external relationships:
Deeper Connections: You form more meaningful and authentic relationships when you approach others with openness and vulnerability.
Emotional Resilience: An open heart helps you navigate life's challenges with grace and strength, as you are more connected to your inner resources.
Inner Peace: Letting go of fear and judgment creates a serene inner landscape, where you can find calm even amidst chaos.
Enhanced Creativity: Openness allows you to tap into your creative potential, as you are more in tune with your intuition and inspiration.
Practical Steps to Open Your Heart
Practice Mindfulness: Spend time each day in meditation or quiet reflection to become more aware of your thoughts and feelings.
Engage in Heart-Centered Activities: Spend time doing what you love, whether it's being in nature, creating art, or spending time with loved ones.
Express Gratitude: Keep a gratitude journal and write down three things you are thankful for each day.
Be Kind to Yourself: Treat yourself with the same compassion and understanding that you would offer a dear friend.
Forgive: Let go of grudges and practice forgiveness, both towards yourself and others. This frees up emotional space for love and joy.
Opening your heart is a journey, not a destination. It requires ongoing practice and patience, but the rewards are immense. By approaching life with an open heart, you embrace a greater consciousness that enriches every aspect of your existence. You connect more deeply with yourself and others, navigate challenges with resilience, and find a profound sense of peace and fulfillment. So, take a deep breath, open your heart, and step into the fullness of life.
i want to be forgiving i really do i want to lead with love and the kindness that accompanies it but others shall not allow for it perhaps i shall offer them love regardless.
I wish that I could forgive as easily
Pain and hope
from @bellacouture18 - Wishing everyone an easy and meaningful fast and only the very best for the new year. שנה טובה #gmarchatimatova #gmarchasimatova #forgive #forgiveness #shannahtovah
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Duā for forgiveness
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي ظَلَمْتُ نَفْسِي ظُلْماً كَثِيراً، وَلَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ، فَاغْفِرْ لِي مَغْفِرَةً مِنْ عِنْدِكَ وَارْحَمْنِي إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ
"O Allah, I have greatly wronged myself and no one forgives sins but You. So, grant me forgiveness and have mercy on me. Surely, you are Forgiving, Merciful."
I pray to Allāh ﷻ that we become amongst the people whom He سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى saves eternally from the Hell this Ramadan. Ameen Sum Ameen.
Pray to Allāh ﷻ for forgiveness, sincerely repent and strive to please Him سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى only. You'll see your life changing. Ask Allāh ﷻ to wipe away all of your sins, and even better, to replace it with good deeds.
—May Allah ﷻ accept our repentance, prayers and fasting. Ameen Sum Ameen.