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8 years ago

It is important for anyone, let alone young people, to share physical intimacy only when they are ready and with persons with whom they share mutual trust and respect!

Also my naked body doesn't belong to anyone but me and I'll do what I want with it. No one owns anyone else's body.

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10 months ago

Jungle Boys and their Knowledge About Sex

Well I'm just gonna say it.

Ace and Luffy BOTH didn't know what sex was until Makino or the Bandits gave them the Birds and the Bees talk.

NEITHER of them know anything about sex besides that b&b talk until they start their respective adventures.

🚫 Um actually ace learned it from the losers he beat up at high town/people at gray terminal

INVALID - he was younger than 10 during all of those instances and was too focused on Roger nonsense. Even if he learned something it would have been raunchy and inaccurate and said in passing cause he was flighty. After Sabo they would have barely went to high town and definitely nothing in gray terminal was left

🚫 um actually Ace understood everything perfectly and never has any misunderstandings from growing up in the jungle while Luffy is Baby and didn't listen to any of it

INVALID - Makino would absolutely make sure both know sex exists. She would struggle maybe but it WOULD happen. Ace being a sex prodigy while not having a single object of his affection until 17/+ does not equal understanding of everything I fear. And Luffy is an idiot but Makino would totally say it's relevant to his adventure to make him listen to at least the basics.

🚫 Um actually they don't bother trying to explain sex to Luffy cause he's clearly asexual/Luffy doesn't understand sex because he's asexual.

INVALID: You're acephobic. Like straight up your acephobic and infantilizing him. He knows what sex is. Stop. He may not want it depending on your hc but acting like he wouldn't know anything at all while Ace knows everything is fucked up. They both were raised in the jungle. In the event that Ace DID understand more, to keep Luffy safe, Ace would definitely tell Luffy to make sure he could protect himself. Sex Trafficking and Sexual Assault exist.

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βœ…οΈ Ace learns what sex is and becomes a whore when he was Spade captain.

VALID: curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought it back wdyw from me

βœ…οΈ Ace blusters and acts like he knows a lot about sex but is either too nervous/guarded/oblivious to have had any after the b&b talk.

VALID: He's hot but also a loser

βœ…οΈ Ace tells Makino that the bandits gave them the sex talk and tells the bandits that Makino gave them the sex talk to get out of it. Now neither Luffy or Ace know anything about how sex works.

VALID: Could be true and also hysterical. Ace not knowing anything about sex on the whitebeard crew at age 19? More likely than you'd think.

βœ…οΈ The bandits give them the sex talk for real and due to a strange amount of euphanisms and vague terminology Luffy and Ace THINK they know what sex is but are very wrong and/or weird about it.

VALID: Could be true and also hysterical.

βœ…οΈ They both avoid the sex talk and all they know about sex is what they see in the jungle.

VALID: Majorly concerning. Good lord that's concerning.

βœ…οΈ Ace got out of the sex talk by lying/avoidance but Luffy got the sex talk.

VALID: Objectively the funniest thing ever if 17 year old Luffy is more knowledgeable about sex than 17 year old Ace. I bet Ace would try to explain sex when they met up in Alabasta and Luffys like ? I know? And Ace dies a bit on the inside cause it was just him.

Tldr; LUFFY KNOWS WHAT SEX IS. STOP BABYING HIM AND IF YOU'RE GONNA MAKE HIM CLUELESS YOU NEED TO MAKE ACE JUST AS CLUELESS CAUSE THEY BOTH WERE RASIED IN THE JUNGLE.


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2 years ago

Neeed to talk about sex, and feeling distraught. Full imagination involved, just need to chill out. Your help could mean my peace for me. β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή

I would love for anybody to come and approach for my solace. β˜ΊοΈπŸ’•πŸŒ 

Neeed To Talk About Sex, And Feeling Distraught. Full Imagination Involved, Just Need To Chill Out. Your

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11 months ago

List Of Sexy Things To Say

I am way too witty for my own good so here are 10 powerful things for you or your characters to say with a religious twist!

"If you are God then I want to commit blasphemy:

"I would love to be covered in your sins"

"I hope God is seeing this"

"I'm sure you taste as divine as you look"

"If you knew just what I was thinking, then you wouldn't be saying all those pure things about me"

"I would do anything for my God"

"All the things I think about doing to you would make me see the man in red"

"May God rue the day we are seperated"

"I wonder how "pure" either of us will be after this"

"Nothing could be a sin if it was done for you"

You might think these are cringe but remember, "one man's cringe is another man's fantasy". If a dialogue is your struggle here is a little bit of personal service


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Screenshot of Tweet. Jeff Lockhart (@jw_lockhart): When people, including bioscientists, say that "sex is a social construct," we don't mean it's a random thing totally unrelated to anything else that we can just change willy-nilly. That "blank slate" position is a strawman. We mean something way cooler and more legitimate. 1/ 30 Jan 22

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Screenshot of Twitter thread. Jeff Lockhart (@jw_lockhart):  "Sex" is a human word for the observation that many different things are somewhat correlated. Some things tend to appear together: more muscle mass, testosterone, testicles, Y chromosomes, SCOTUS seats, jail sentences, body hair, height, shorter life expectancy... correlated 2/ Because we see all of those things more or less tend to go together, and people like finding & naming patterns, we group people into categories--male and female--then call that categorization sex. 3/ Importantly, though, sex is not any of the physical things in a body (chromosomes, hormones, gonads, hair, muscle mass...), nor is it any of the social things in a life (outfits, jobs, interests, actions...). Sex is our name for the correlations among them. It's a human idea. 4/ So "sex is a social construct" in the sense that sex is an idea people discussed together (social) and built up (constructed). Of course we constructed sex using observations of "real things" in the world, gonads and so on. Being socially constructed doesn't deny that. 5/

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Jeff Lockhart (@jw_lockhart): (Cont'd) So why emphasize that sex is a social construct at all? Why point out the gap between the "reality" of bodies and our human description of it? Well, because our human description "sex" oversimplifies things, and sometimes those oversimplifications are wrong and/or harmful. 6/ When we construct sex, we make a bunch of choices about what things to count as part of it. In 1900, education correlated very strongly with gonads. We saw much talk about how intelligence was part of sex, same as ovaries. Less now that women get more college degrees than men. 7/ 30 years later, we found some chemicals that seemed correlated with other things in sex. So we added them to the rest in our idea of sex, calling them "male and female hormone." Some scientists were very displeased to later discover "female hormone" in urine from horse penises 8/ Penises and estrogen weren't supposed to go together! We called it "female hormone" exactly because we were sure it was correlated with *not* having a penis. Still today, some propose estrogen to treat covid because women have lower covid morbidity & sex says "estrogen=woman" 9/

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Jeff Lockhart (@jw_lockhart): (Cont'd) The biological correlations and differences we think of as part of sex change with time and social context. Women now run much closer to men's speeds than they once did (access to sport), scholars use sex differences in height as a measure of "son preference" (via nutrition). 10/ There are many examples like these, indeed a whole vibrant field of STS scholarship about it. And there is an even bigger, more vibrant field of biological research on variations in sex, i.e. the ways that lumping many different things into a two-category idea is wrong 10/ Some of this is research on intersex conditions (e.g. a Y chromosome does not guarantee development of testicles), but much of it is 'boring normal science' on physical and developmental pathways showing levels of, timing of, & complex interactions among things in sex matter. 12/ Of course, if this were just academics talking among ourselves, I wouldn't be tweeting about it (or writing a dissertation on it). Where things go really awry is when people start making prescriptive claims about how society should be based on their understanding of sex 13/

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Jeff Lockhart (@jw_lockhart): (Cont'd) Instead, sadly, we are in the midst of intense public and legislative battles over sex. 14/ For example: HRT is increasingly difficult for trans people to access, but it remains easily available for people like Jo* Rog*n. Why? For trans people, HRT is technology to change and defy the expected correlations of sex. For Joe, taking testosterone confirms them. 15/ Here we mistake of confusing sex, our human idea summarizing how the world works, our mental model, for not just the truth of the world, but also the morally correct way of being. 16/ We mistake the descriptive truth of a loose correlation, "having between 264 and 916 ng/dL Testosterone often correlates with having Y chromosomes, a penis, a beard, etc..." for the moral assertion that, "Testosterone must be below 5 nmol/L if you were not born with a penis." 17/

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Jeff Lockhart (@jw_lockhart): (Cont'd) When we say that sex is socially constructed, we are trying to remind people of this. To remind them that our ideas about what things do and should go together are just that: human ideas. They are sometimes wrong about what does, in fact, go together. 18/ And they are sometimes immoral when they make claims about what should go together (e.g. women in engineering). If we remember that sex is a human claim about the world, then we have the tools to change it, to make it more accurate, more ethical. 19/ This understanding also changes how we talk about sex. Sex can't cause things biologically. It can't be the source of differences. It is our name for the patterns we observe. Sometimes it's a useful proxy for them. But it can prevent us from looking into actual mechanisms 20/ Similarly, "being male" or "being female" can't cause things either. Those names for our socially constructed categories of sex. As recent calls for precise language note, they mostly obscure the biological and social mechanisms of phenomena. e.g. [Science.org link] 21/

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Jeff Lockhart (@jw_lockhart): (Cont'd) As this thread circulates, the "sex is about reproduction and gametes" crowd is likely to find it. Yes, it is! "Sex" is also the word for fucking that doesn't make babies, as in "to have sex." But the social conversations aren't about either of those meanings of sex 22/ Nobody runs around with calipers measuring gamete size to determine access to sports, bathroom, healthcare, education, employment, etc. Those conversations aren't about banning infertile people. They make guesses based on things like face structure, breast tissue, voice pitch 23/ I.e. they're using sex the way I describe in this thread.  (Although there are a ton of fun facts in sexual reproduction of other species where it works way differently than humans, so even in reproduction only land, sex is way cooler and messier than we give it credit for.) 24/ This thread is now a blog post, with some added context based on the comments and lots of links to further reading. [link to article "sex as a social construct" on scatter.wordpress.com]Β 

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1 year ago

If there is one thing I hate homophobic people saying, it's that gay men are gross for having anal sex.

I get it, poop comes out of the anus. You sound like a 5 year old who just learned about sex: "ew, that's where you pee out of!".

Yes, the anus is "gross", just as many other parts of the human body are "gross". Genitals make pee, the vagina gets bloody every month, the mouth is a cesspool of spit and bacteria, skin is always covered in dead skin cells and makes sweat, but nobody ever complains about them being gross, because we have a novel concept called WASHING and HYGIENE. Homophobes always say that "it will never be clean, it will always be covered in shit", which is just plain untrue. It's fallacious and hypocritical to treat this particular part of the body any differently, and is clearly just an excuse to paint homosexual men as disgusting and degenerate.

And just to be clear, yes, I know that not all gay men have sex anally, and I'm not saying that everyone has to find it arousing themselves. I'm just saying that we really need to drop this stigma around anal.


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