Toxic Friendships - Tumblr Posts

ending a toxic friendship and feeling happier but then you have to change your matching home and lock screens, stop drawing your shared ocs, delete your pintrest boards together, and delete shared google docs, and then it really hits you:

theyre gone

Get away from toxic friends!

Hello my sailors💖 I AM BACK

These days i've been reflecting about my old friendships and thinking about them it made me realize that some of my self esteem problems that i used to have it was because of them.

At that time,for me it was normal even if theses friendships would cause me real fucking problems:(But because i had no one to advise to get away from them)

I understand that sometimes you dont keep these people away from you because the fear of being alone is bigger,i was like that too!My fear of being alone at school was way bigger,so i would keep that toxic friends close to me because for me,they were the only people i know and have!And that was not true,we are living in a planet with billions of people,somehow i would find my besties

And i did

So,i decide to write about kind of friends that you should not be close and get away as fast as you can!

FIRTS OF ALL

1.The friend that is always making jokes about your looks

Everthing about you is a great joke for them,these people are so problematic because they usually do this to feel better about themselves,if you dont get way from them,you'll be the only one to have problems with your own image and yourself and believe you will have a lot to work to recovery a good confidence

2 Friends who is always talking bad about others to you

If you have a friend that is always talking bad about others all the time,criticizing others all the time,making fun of others all the time,keep a eye open,because if he's talking about others

They talk about you too! I learned this in the worst way possible,get away from this people,they dont add nothing important

3 Friends who see you as competition

Imagine having a friend that is always competing with you for everthing!Grades,boys and even other friends,they always trying to push you down,if they know some of you secrets,they will instantly gossip about it to others

You're a rival,someone that they need to destroy

I believe these kind of friends last because you're in a competition that you dont even know you're in and once you realize,its too late

4. SELF CENTERED FRIENDSHIPS

You whole friendship is based on them,they talk about themselves all the time and everytime you try to talk something different,somehow they always turn the conversation being about them again

Even if you try to talk about something that happened that make you very sad,they be like "🤨"

Is like one sided friendship,you must be always by their side to listen to them,carry their frustation and sadness but when you need this too,they dont care

You need to cultivate good and healthy relantionships with people,be close to people who will support you,any type of person who is disrespectful and make you feel negative about yourself

Just get away

AND THATS ALL

DRINK WATER AND SLEEP WELL

BYE BYE SAILORS💖💖