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Unpopular Opinion Time?
There are many diverse aus, art styles, and OG content out there for fandoms. Some are more favored than others and artists are at varying stages in their artistic development (aka some are beginners while others have been practicing a hell lot longer).
So is it considered rude for people to publicly laugh at and mock specific aus and artists, or have a “cringe session” with friends and followers? Publicly as in on Tumblr, Discord servers, Twitters, etc where people in AND outside their circle of friends can chime in and also join in the mockery?
Reblogging this just to increase visibility along with adding a few extra thoughts to this.
If Tosteur or Sunny wishes for me to delete this post then I will happily do so! Please check tags for more rambles lolol.
I mentioned previously that I had gone on an alt account to have a conversation about Zeteroxx and Fey's accusations. Our conversation got a bit heated, but one of the main things I had asked Zeteroxx about is its goal with the constant harassment of my friends. It had clearly stated that it wanted Tosteur and Sunny to 'go to therapy and they would be allowed to come back when they are different people'. There are a few issues with this: it's not up to Zeteroxx or Fey to decide if someone's changed, they have gone way beyond a reasonable and polite solution and instead started asking people to harass and block my friends without clearly stating that they just want Tosteur and Sunny to take a break just to go to therapy, Zeteroxx and Fey aren't privy to the information to see if the parties they've already started accusing are already in therapy or if they have looked into therapy, and also some kids online don't really get to make the call that someone 'needs therapy'. I personally think therapy is beneficial to everyone but trying to diagnose someone mentally unwell(or whatever they are trying to convey by their accusations) as someone who is not a trained professional can be quite damaging.
Also, while Zeteroxx or Fey are now deliberately trying to sabotage Tosteur and Sunny's relationships it kinda goes beyond 'spreading the word'. It is harassment. Not to mention making entire block lists of people who side with the two accused and posting it as a threat to add more people or using the overhanging threat of yourselves blocking them. At this point you are trying to scare people into siding with you.
This has already been brought up. But it's not up to Fey to decide if people are allowed to be a certain person or align with a certain identity. Fey left Tosteur's server because they got into a disagreement with Sunny. Fey made a comment saying that someone they used to know likely was lying about their sexuality because they were a bad person and Sunny called Fey out saying that Fey doesn't get to make those accusations because that is invalidating part of someone's identity. Fey said 'i know when im not wanted' and then left the server with Zeteroxx. Two weeks later the hate posts started coming up. Now, Fey is trying to invalidate Sunny's identity saying that they won't call them the name Sunny because 'Sunny' is a fictive and not the person fronting. Plus the constant use of wrong pronouns when on the server and now after they've left.
I'm not saying anyone involved was blameless. Multiple people have made mistakes in this situation, including myself. But there's a clear difference between people who are using popular Omori creators to constantly spread their hate and people who are trying to just take the hate. Tosteur hasn't lashed back or done anything to aggravate any of you guys after that situation! Why do you feel the need to be lurking on the page of the guy you blocked and screenshot his posts just to post a picture to your following and encourage people to drive Tosteur off the platform??? That's not a decent-person thing to do???
Putting harder to read things below the 'read more'. This mentions Zeteroxx's accusations against myself and a few other people regarding their mental state when they were on the server and mentions of taking ones life. Please proceed with caution.
When I tried to confront Zeteroxx on my alt account it accused me of 'making it almost commit' along with hurling those accusations to the other accused and people in that server. I do not plan on invalidating it's feelings but it is extremely important to make some points clear.
First of all, after breaking the rules on its first day, I offered to help Zeteroxx in DMs so it would not continue breaking the rules on the server(spoiler alert: it kept breaking the rules on the server). My thought process in offering to help it is that I was the oldest person on the server and I thought that the responsibility should naturally fall to me to make sure that Zeteroxx was okay and other people weren't being made uncomfortable. A few days into talking to Zeteroxx in DMs I realized that I truly had no clue what I was doing and started feeling more and more uncomfortable as I felt my own mental health taking a toll so I told Zeter that I didn't feel comfortable DMing it anymore and offered different online resources that would have people better suited and trained to help people. I also offered to help it find alternate resources if the current ones did not work.
Zeteroxx told me that those kinds of resources just don't really work for it and then proceeded to continue ruminating on the server. At that point I only kept my conversations with it public and did not respond anytime it attempted to DM me.
My next point is that while several people can influence a choice, no human can truly make anyone commit. It sounds cruel to say that, but my point is that Zeteroxx is placing all of the blame for its mental health onto other people very publicly in a way to hurt them. It hurts a lot to have an accusation like that made against you and while I understand that it may be upset with Sunny or I, it's not necessarily correct or fair to place us as the pure blame. There are a lot of factors that tie into decisions that impactful, and for someone to be held as the sole reason can take a large mental toll.
Also, its ideation of committing was brought up on its first day in the server. Zeteroxx has been blaming Tosteur and other server members for everyone excluding it and ignoring it, but there were no such conversations like that. Likely, the two reasons people wouldn't always respond to Zeteroxx's message is because 1) most of the server is in an entirely different time zone and could be in school or sleeping when the message was sent or 2) people just didn't know how to connect with Zeteroxx and felt uncomfortable when being in a conversation when the other party started spiraling. There was no consensus for everyone to ignore specific members of the server, people are just allowed to have conversations with who they wish. And we aren't going to make anyone have conversations with someone either.
I apologize if this comes across as harsh, but it was of my opinion that it would be best to be blunt about my thoughts on this subject because this situation has hurt multiple people. And even though the people accused keep trying to ignore and just let Zeteroxx and Fey be angry, the hate posts haven't necessarily been going away.
Making this post because I am so incredibly tired of all this bullshit, with all the stress me and my friend went through.
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It's been almost two months, and i've been isolated, under the pretext that I'm a harasser and that I've manipulated and bullied two former members of my server.
My friend already clarified this on his response post on his now inactive alt, but this is not true. I have almost never talked to Zeteroxx in DMS, and when I did, it was me checking if it was okay after it felt bad after a roleplay session. On the server, i've always been respectful. All I did was reminding it and Fey to respect the rules, which they were both constantly breaking. Venting, bringing out dramas, constantly despite my warnings. I have tried to be understanding, and most of the time I would just brush off their behaviour even when it made several members uncomfortable. Venting is not allowed on this server, and while I understand they'd want a safe space to vent to, it shouldn't have been here. People from the server did want to help it by making a venting group. People were not harassing Zeteroxx.
It got upset when Theoku stated he felt uncomfortable at the idea of Zeteroxx seeing his content. That's it.
Fey did have disagreements with members of the server but again, it was always respectful, and members were always understanding of Fey's past experiences. Their disagreements with Theoku were resolved in DMS and were not heated. At all. Not in any way was it harassment. Theoku had always been trying to be respectful as well.
And again, the proshipper allegations are baseless. Just because I drew my Basil|Stranger character wearing a crop top and flirting with Sunny. They're both 17, and even then, there was nothing sexual about this. It is just a teenager wearing a crop top. What is wrong with you people. And since it is now used as Fey's main argument against us, I find it concerning. They seem to care way more about a drawing they don't like than the actual person who has been hurt.
It is valid from Zeteroxx not to feel good after someone clearly said they don't like it, in a moment where it was in a very bad headspace and struggling. But I do condemn the constant harassment from their side. The amount of posts they've been making on us and telling my mutuals and friends to block me is harassment. I have received asks that were clearly the results of those posts. And talking to the artists I've interacted with to "warn them about us", making a bunch of call out posts is a hate campaign. Fey, what you're doing is harassment, and it's not helping anyone. All it's doing is hurting every party involved. I am not happy about losing mutuals, potential friends. I am not happy about seeing all the hard work I've put on this blog crumble.
Fey was the one who had been horribly disrespectful, misgendering Theoku and using the wrong name despite his constant reminders; while insisting on using the right pronouns for you, which we had been doing since the beginning. This is in no way okay.
Explicitly refusing to use the name that Theoku gave them because “it’s clearly the host talking, not Sunny” despite Theoku clearly stating it is his name everywhere including on discord is disgusting.
I invite you to look at the posts Fey had been making "exposing us", as well as Theoku's response on his alt account ( @theokusobjection ) but you can clearly see that no significant proof was formulated that would prove us guilty of such things.
They have been accusing us while misusing extremely serious and sensitive language, with again, no concrete proof. I am not happy about the image they are painting of us, it has been impacting our mental healths very badly.
And regarding this old friend again, this should've stayed a private matter. I am deeply hurt by this as well as it was a very painful and traumatic friendship fallout. I had been avoiding this person and moving on with life, and that helped me recover from all of this, yet here we are.
I stayed silent for so long to protect myself, not to feed the drama, but I cannot take this anymore.
Water drinkers: I am boring, but that does not matter because I am cleared. There are no toxins in my body, I will live for 10,000 years, whereas you fools will die within 90. The water’s flow resonates with my soul; I am one with the elements and at peace.
tea drinkers: unlike you filthy disgusting creatures i only drink green chamomile peppermint raspberry lemon tea, which makes all my insides glow 10 times brighter and improve. i can feel my body get healthier by every drink i take of my delicious hot mug of TEA. youre absolutely disgusting and a waste of human potential
coffee drinker: hhhnng lov those beans
Oh. I didn't forget about you. You think child mutilation is funny? There's a special place in h3ll for people like you. My people in Israel are mourning their dead children DAILY. Look them up. Maybe then it won't be so funny.
fuck off Leah, or whatever your name is, I am not letting you send me into another panic attack bitch. Not everything that someone writes is something that they think is funny. How about you talk about the refugees being murdered in the safe zones in Gaza? Or the aid workers who were just there to feed starving people regardless of country of origin who were targeted by missiles? Or the children who were bombed in Ukraine? If you don't want to read dark shit, where kids get hurt, get the fuck out of this fandom, or do you plan to go yell at George too?
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don’t care? don’t read/comment/ask me about it, please
Luna reached to me on Twitter, and I really wanted to be sympathetic since they were just a kid who seemed to have screwed up due to acting immature. I hoped to persuade them to get off of both Tumblr and Twitter since:
a) both sites require a user to be at least 13 in order to have an account (Luna has admitted to being 12)
b) Luna already proved that they weren’t very able to handle things maturely on here w/past drama (some of you should know, but I’m too tired to inform anyone who asks, so please don’t)
after what I thought to be a successful attempt to convince them to wait until they were 13 and do other things in the meantime, they went and made a new Tumblr account & literally stated that they were bored of waiting. I told Luna I wouldn’t make a callout post, but they’ve literally gone on my back, and I’m tired of trying to have faith in them in making a genuine improvement.
This is just a warning that Luna is not trustworthy & they’re breaking the rules, for anyone that is uncomfortable talking to people younger than 13. But above all else, please don’t attack them!!!! The last thing I want is for them to receive more threats— I just wished they’d listen and adhere to the guidelines... their safety and their mental health is in danger for as long as they’re on the internet.
Anyways, as I announced recently, I updated my carrd to include DNI if you’re under 13, so if I see anyone else breaking that rule, I’m going to try to plead you to get off Tumblr once. Upon a refusal, you’re getting blocked.
I’m gonna be venting. You are free to ignore this post as it’s not really important.
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If there is one thing that I’ve always hated; it’s ending friendships. Whether it’s because we drifted apart over time or, sadly, in most cases for me, something sour happened between us, I NEVER wanted to stop being friends with someone.
Maybe it’s because I used to (or still do) have trouble making friends when I was little. Maybe it’s because of the neglect and emotional abuse I had to deal with during my childhood. Bullying. All the above...
Either way, this and last year were the worst as I had to end quite a number of friendships; one of them was with one that I’ve known since around 2006 or 2007! That one friendship was even worse as I once considered them to be one of my best friends! We had the same interests, love to draw, love role playing... we even love the same edgy fucking hedgehog. However...that said friend slowly became almost stagnant, allowed themselves to be surrounded by very toxic people, refuse to take criticism and even treat me and others as if we’re the bad guys for giving those said criticisms that is meant to help them improve as an artist! I just... I couldn’t take it anymore.
One other friend turned out to be not only toxic, but also an emotional ABUSER (intentional or otherwise) to another friend I also sadly stopped talking to and I and the others had to kick them from a D&D campaign.
Another was also toxic but in a different sense. They weren’t a bad person, but not only they were uncomfortably clingy, they...hardly talked to me normally and only wanted to talk about something else that they seem to only care about more than me.
Look, while I’m no longer friends with any of these individuals, even ones I haven’t brought up, I DON’T HATE THEM. The abuser, yeah, I do really dislike them, but not hate.
It usually takes a LOT to make me hate someone and what each of these people did isn’t enough to warrant any hatred. My hatred is towards those who are willing to seriously hurt people; racists, homophobes, transphobes, pedophiles, zoophiles, rapists, terrorists... VERY BAD PEOPLE.
I want nothing but for these former friends to get better; changing their lives for the sake of self improvement. To realize the mistakes they’ve made, learned from them, and do their best to move forward...like what I’ve been doing.
My hatred is also towards those who seriously hurt me. Those who slandered me, verbally and emotionally abused me, spread harmful LIES about me, sexually HARRASSED me, treated me like I’m the enemy or someone who cannot change for the better as if I’m completely unredeemable, and telling me that no one cared about me and that I was better off DEAD.
None of these former friends did any of that shit to me.
I’ve made...some really bad mistakes...said HORRIBLE things when I lost my anger...but I’ve learned from them.
Please, take care of yourselves.
Will they change? That’s not for me to say.
It’s them to make that necessary step.
Will I ever be friends with them again? Sadly, I don’t think I will.
The truth will get out.
SUPPORT THE VICTIMS. NOT THE GROOMER.
If you are a fan of ghost, you might know of Ghostro.
The owner is a sicko, he is a pedophile, suicide baiter and overall weird person.
He has denied this , over and over. But let the victims speak for them selves.
REPORT HIS DISCORD ACCOUNT!!!
BOYCOTT GHOSTRO AND MORE OF THE STAGE WILL BE SENT SOON
fuck this sense of Deja vu.
This is part ONE about the Jessie Situation.
https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1DLgSoOB1kFA0YlM-6xRBzVjOsDzhCEmPhpsfiXsw6m8/edit#slide=id.p
Jessie has made a response. I’ll post part two of the videos today.
Disclaimer the videos about this response will be better covered. The videos right now will only cover the stage talk
https://youtu.be/lR8vEV3FW1s?si=w1ri4vVuv_PhVbs8
Mamas coming home BABYYYY
Part two BABBYYYY
fuck this sense of Deja vu.
This is part ONE about the Jessie Situation.
https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1DLgSoOB1kFA0YlM-6xRBzVjOsDzhCEmPhpsfiXsw6m8/edit#slide=id.p