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The worst is when he did it to my parents. I felt so bad for them and ashamed of him. I don't ever need to worry about that again, and that eases some stress during the holidays.

I hope you all find some peace tonight and throughout the year to come. You deserve it.

Joyless Giving

The holidays have some truly terrible memories for me, but every year was miserable with a person like him.

Giving him gifts filled me with such dread.  He was so particular. If he didn’t like a gift, he’d tell you and he’d also berate you for being stupid. This wasn’t exclusive to me, but it was heightened to dangerous levels for me.

I would call him a spoiled brat if his hissy fits weren’t so terrifyingly violent.

Sometimes he was easy and said “This is what I want.” It may put me in debt, but at least I wasn’t going to be spit-screamed at.

Other years it was “buy me a new wardrobe” and refusing to answer follow up questions. I was panic-stricken; making the wrong decisions was Bad™, and with such vague instructions I was destined to mess something up.

I used to like giving gifts, but now I approach it with apprehension. He took the joy out of it. 

He took the joy out of everything.

Missed Milestones

It may be a sign that I’m making progress, but I missed remembering some important milestones this year:

It’s been 210 weeks since I spoke my last words to him (that’s 4 full years and 2 weeks if you don’t want to count).

It’s been 314 weeks (6 years, 2 weeks) since I lived under the same roof as him.

I’ll be 36 this week.  And while my body is feeling its age (and more) at times, my mind feels younger than it ever did when I was in my 20s.

I'd imagine he would deny doing anything to me at all.

However, later when Dick succeeded in getting Batman out of mind control, he was scolded him for not getting him out of the mind control sooner. So even if this isn’t physical abuse, it is emotional abuse. 

On top of that when the antithesis tried to take control of the Titans minds by showing them their worst fears, Dick fought back something even the Batman couldn’t do.

I can’t believe he hit and then broke up with Robin like that, fuck  

Just a reminder that every single person who claims to like or be a fan of the film Whiplash (2014) is a brainless coward who believes that it's justified for men to hit kids.

If you have marks on your body, that means whatever demon in your mind or in your life that tried to take you out failed miserably, and they left you some sick looking battle scars as proof of your strength.

It means more than just "you survived." It means there's some force out there trying to end you and you're still kicking ass. Sounds more like thriving to me.

Show em off. Tell their stories.

I'd love to seem em and I'd love to hear em.

Title: The Voluptuous Martyrdom of the Apostate

Chapters: ?

Fandom: Outlast (Video Games)

Rating: Explicit

Warnings: Graphic Depictions Of Violence | Major Character Death | Rape/Non-Con | Underage

Relationships: Val (Outlast)/Original Character(s) | Sullivan Knoth/Other(s) | Sullivan Knoth/Anna Lee | Sullivan Knoth & Marta

Characters: Original Characters | Val (Outlast) | Sullivan Knoth Marta (Outlast) | Corgan (Outlast) | Blake Langermann | Lynn Langermann | Laird Byron | Nick Tremblay | Heretics (Outlast) | The Scalled (Outlast) | Ethan (Outlast) | Anna Lee (Outlast)

Additional tags: Body Horror, Psychological Trauma, Psychological Torture, Psychological Drama, Psychological Horror, Sex, Rough Sex, Anal Sex, Oral Sex, Underage Sex, Underage Rape/Non-con, Rape/Non-con Elements, Rape, Blasphemy, Cousin Incest, Parent/Child Incest, Half-Sibling Incest, Uncle/Niece Incest, Religion, Parent-Child Relationship, Pregnancy, Infanticide, Suicide, Suicidal Thoughts, Sexually Transmitted Diseases, Child Abuse, Past Abuse, Verbal Abuse, Physical Abuse, Romance, Tragic Romance, Arranged Marriage, Bullying, Mental Instability, Trauma, Masturbation, Gender Dysphoria, Misogyny, Torture, Mutilation, Self-Harm, Religious Fanaticism, Murder, Murder Family, Manipulation, Religious Imagery & Symbolism, Dreams and Nightmares, Blood and Gore, Sexual Tension, Domestic Violence, Forced Orgasm, Forced Masturbation, Forced Relationship, Obsessive Behavior, Self-Hatred, Explicit Language

Summary:

Temple Gate. A special and immaculate place surrounded by the wild nature of the Havasupai reservation, appointed by God Himself for the gathering of people guided by His new Ezekiel Sullivan Knoth. A place where time seems to have stopped and where leading a simple life consecrated to humbleness and obedience, waiting for the Judgement Day to come, is the key to touch the eternal bliss of Heaven with your own hands and to benefit the light provided by the Lord and His angels. But at what cost? How far can a person with such a noble and challenging intent go? What dark and mysterious secrets lurk behind the Sullivan Knoth's personal Garden of Eden?

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New Outlast 2 fanfic! 🤗 I've been planning it for 5 long years at this point, but finally I managed to publish the prologue (maybe a bit too long, but still... 😅) and that makes me so proud 💪 I'm already writing the first chapter and I can't wait to show it to you ❤️ The story will be extremely long, as it's a sort of horror soap opera and concerns the countless events that took place in Temple Gate before Blake and Lynn's arrival according to both canonical sources and my headcanons, but in any case I hope you'll appreciate it 😁

Bts found out you were a werewolf -bts v

*Warning*— graphic depictions of abuse, harassment sexually, and heart break. Remember this is not what bts is actually like

You and Tae had been dating for years and never kept secrets from each other, or at least Tae didn’t. There were only two secrets you have have never told him like you’re a werewolf. The only member who knew was namjoon and from the day he met you he knew he liked you. And it’s not like you were embarrassed by being a werewolf or anything it was just that namjoon would always tell you that Tae would never love again if he found out. But the other secret was you were cheating on Tae with Namjoon. But it’s not like you wanted to and you hated it but Nakhon threatened to tell Tae.

But with this blackmail came rape and depression. Now namjoon was smart and didn’t want Tae ti find out that he had been fucking his GF. And Namjoon would be sneaky with it as you hates it which made you fear namjoon. But one day you Tae and Namjoon were all home together watching movies . Then Tae gave you those puppy dog eyes and said “Y/N sweetie will you please make popcorn for all of us” and you agreed and got up to go. And as you were getting up Namjoon said to Tae “ Ima go too so she doesn’t burn the dorm down !” And followed you into the kitchen.

while the popcorn was in the microwave poping Namjoon said “Y/N tonight I will need you,” you took a big gulp and said “ but me and Tae were going to do something tonight and I can’t cancel on sex again.” He got frustrated as you tried to leave the kitchen he grabbed your arm firmly and said “ look you’re gonna be good for daddy and have another English study night tonight.” And t your emotions got the best of you and you turned into a we’re wolf. And snapped at him growling and barking at him.

Then Tae came in the kitchen and stoped you from killing Namjoon. Tears filled your eyes and you turned into a human and Namjoon slipped away to his room. And you got up off the ground and started packing your stuff to leave. But Tae was trying to talk to you the whole time but you ignored and got mad and tried to leave without your stuff. And decided to make a break for it and ran out the dorm and beat Tae to the elevator. And thought about all the great memories you had of Tae.

As you left the building Tae ran up grabbed your rist and you got mad and caused your eyes to glow and made a wolf like growl come out at Tae. Relishing this you covered you mouth and laid on the ground and sobbed. And you knew your boyfriend hates seeing you cry and picked you up so you could sob in his shoulder. And then you explained everything and at the end he was pissed got up to go beat the shit out of Namjoon. Next thing you know an ambulance came and got Namjoon and you fell asleep on the couch.

Taehyung’s reaction to making you run away

•btw your name in this is Josie and this contains hurting, accidental abuse, and smut

It had been a normal night but tonight just got home from a date night with Josie and you couldn’t stop staring at her tonight and her red sparkly skin tight dress it complimented her figure and she had had it up to the bedroom and you had not known it but tonight she forgot to lock the door. So you had taken off your shoes and headed up stairs into the bedroom after a little bit of Netflix and chill, and found her asleep and naked in the bed and uncovered and they said been the first time you’ve ever seen I like this

You started to feel your bulgue , Harden and sweat run down your face and body. Couldn’t help yourself so you hopped in bed after removing all clothing, but underwear trying to ignore that and not. Disturb her from her sleep, but after a while, you just couldn’t sleep so you started ferociously, giving her hickeys on the neck, waking her up and making her moan.

And then she said, dude stop I don’t wanna do it tonight

See, she was scared for her first time with you, because she had given you a hand job once, and realized that you were bigger than she thought . But she was too tired to stop you, so you just grab the bottle of lube, started masturbating and you started moaning loud while groping her but she was tired of your moaning , so she just turned around and took control

She got on top of you and slid it in with the slight moan come from her mouth, she slowly moved her body on you, but you were restless so you picked her up, placed her down and started going really hard and then it’s like a bullet hit her but in a good way she moaned really loudly while crying.

She gave you were mad crying look are you walk to the bathroom to go clean your dick. When you return you did not see her for weeks you had search for her and one night you just went to the club for some reason with all the other members trying to ignore the sadness and then you saw her on the pole, making money after the club closed, you guys followed her. You told namjoon to stay in the car when y’all got to the apartment.

I see you sneakily ran up to her and pushed here to the wall in a corner and apologized and try to get her back, but she didn’t allow it and her dog got you when she called him. But he quickly realized who you were and loved on you. Then she let you in to grab your stuff but all you wanted to do was talk.

You walk in and sit by her on the couch and talk. (Tae)-“Josie why did you run away?” (Josie)-“ bc you hurt me when we had sex I made it obvious that you needed to go slow and I was crying while you f***ed me and I know you can’t help it and I know it feels good and I also know you couldn’t hear me bc you were feeling sooo good 🤤 but you knew I was scared.” (Tae)-“ you know I love you and I didn’t know you were scared, but pls forgive me Josie.” (Josie)-“ Tae why should I? So you can hurt me again!” (Tae)-“ I promise I won’t do that again until you’re ready.” (Josie)-“fine”

She finally looked at you and hugged you while crying as this broke your heart you conforted her and carried her to her bed room. And you tucked her in and turned off the lights and started to leave then Josie said with a shaky voice “ Tae? Aren’t you going to sleep in here with me?” You took this opportunity to get closer with her and regain her trust. And y’all fell asleep cuddling each other.

What I have come to understand by suffering from mommy and daddy issues is that, I detest serious, strong-willed older women who are more likely to dominate me, because my mother is a controlling, emotionally/physically abusive, narcissistic, privacy stealing freak, who won't ever let me go from her clutches and that I prefer older men, because I never had a father figure who was constantly around, babied me, spoiled me or gave me a sense of security and safety.

Sorta vent under the cut 😭

Scroll if you're not comfortable!!!!

TW FOR MENTIONS OF ABUSE. CRIES

YK WHAT I NEED A TUTORIAL FOR?? How to trust your mother again after she's gotten therapy and changed for the better because she used to be so angry and scary. She had terrible anger issues and she always argued with my dad. She wasn't much of a physical abuser (Often. It still happened.) But she mentally abused me and my older brother for years and I still haven't recovered fully from it. She and my dad split up a few years ago, and I've lived with my dad. But recently they've been hanging out more, and they're actually acting like friends. They do karaoke and shit together and they watch this TV show on the nights she drops my brothers off. I feel bad for being cautious around her, because I know she had it rough and she's getting better. She's already improved so much. And I love her, really, but trusting her again is scary.

She's so much nicer to me now.

I got that dog in me (The dog is Stockholm syndrome when my old abusive ex from years ago tries to come back into my life)

Put the dog down

Self-Portrait for Digital Image Making.

I'm going to explain to others that this is a personal piece. Some people are aware that I was physically and mentally abused as a child by my mother. As a result, I constantly see myself as a broken, damaged individual who doesn't deserve any happiness.

This portrait is suppose to show the result of how I see myself as a result of the years of abuse. I see myself as a ugly person that needs to be hidden. All I can see about my appearance is the physical marks I had and emotional scars I still have and continue to cope with.

I've never actually cut myself but I have attempted it multiple times to deal with my pain, which is why I drew them on my arms.

The second image is what I used as reference. It was shot by my Digital Painting professor.

My entire life I’ve battled depression, a few years back I got really bad, I had no idea how much pain I had been in before my life was ruined cause of my own choice of how I was living. I was so angry with life, I was hurting, I was afraid, I felt so much pain in my heart that I couldn’t bare my own thoughts anymore my mind was so full of thoughts that I couldn’t even think straight. I had no clue who I even was anymore. It made me feel weak, I was in panic mode all the time, I felt extremely lonely, my life had been falling apart, I had reacted in such a way that I had no idea what to expect from myself. I became numb while I sat with tears in my eyes, I felt my stomach ache from the stress of being in the most difficult place of life while I was hurting. I was beyond exhausted and tired. I didn’t want to feel the pain, much longer I was struggling with it all.

I had no energy for the smallest of tasks, I was so stressed out, exhausted, I couldn’t even get myself out of my bed I had to take a break from feeling so much of the stress that was causing my anxiety to be so intense and it took me a long time to get through the healing phase of being able to breathe again.. I was so anxious to get out of my head that I was just trying to take one day at a time. I couldn’t breathe at times, I was struggling with my asthma so bad.

I had to get out of the house and get my stuff done and that was a huge struggle for me I was so lost I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing anymore. I was in a very miserable place, but despite all of that I kept going. But the things that were happening in my life were not easy to cope with, they were a result of my own lack of self awareness. The things being done to me by this narcissist person that made it a hell of a nightmare to be in such a horrible mindset.

He was terrible and cruel to me every day. He was so toxic towards me I had prayed to God every day, somedays I was on my hands and knees begging for help to get me through this difficult time in my life. My ex was beyond ugly to me, his personality was so toxic, he treated me however he pleased, I was an object to him nothing more nothing less. He had no idea how much he was hurting me so I had to go through the process of heart break. I was very angry at him for being so selfish, he didn’t understand how I was devastated about him being so naive about everything he was putting me through. I chased him around for what seemed like a lifetime, i was proving myself to him, that I was worth fighting for, i begged for his attention, to be heard, to make him see that I was worth not getting cheated on, that I deserved someone to stay faithful to me and I was willing to do whatever it took to make us work.

I have struggled to voice my own thoughts, opinions and feelings for the past 30 years most of my life, I was too scared to speak out and ask for help from people, instead I trusted my own judgment to do it all on my own.

Playing the role of a mother, I was also working to support my children. I was battling postpartum depression shortly after giving birth to my son. I hadn’t had time to grieve over the fact I was in such pain that it was hard to keep up with all of the things I had been dealing with for so long..

I was being abused by my ex every single day for years, I was called horrible names, I was chocked, I was getting kicked around that was a huge embarrassment to me. I would cry because of the way I was being mistreated by him. He was a very unstable person, he has no sort of good character or any other form of self respect that he has to offer to anyone. He was unkind to me, the people who I was the closest to, he was very disrespectful and harsh towards my children, family, and friends.

It was a lot of things that he had done to me that made him very very angry at me, he would say all the time that he knew I deserved better than him, because of what he was doing to me, he was without a doubt the most narcissistic person I ever met. I stand by that.. he is not worth my time, blood, or tears. I was exhausted of the life I was living.

I had so much anger.. I had no idea how to deal with the situation that was so much more than I could possibly handle. I was coping to the reality of it all, the fact it was a lot more than I was able to handle. The night terrors, the way that it was suppose to be different, the things that were being said to me only to find out that they were all just lies that were being told to me by him..

I had been questioning my own life because how could someone claim to love and care for me while also hurting me?! I built a life with this person, I was fortunate enough to be blessed with two babies with him. It all went downhill afterwards, I was so devastated, I couldn’t even imagine the thought of how I would survive without him the thought itself was too much to even comprehend it all. I couldn’t imagine what our life’s would be without each other. the thought of loving you so deeply, I was willing to do anything to make it work out. I knew that I was willing to go through hell with you but how fair is that to anyone?!

I was so overwhelmed by the pain that it was difficult knowing what to do, how to fix it all!!!!!! I couldn’t do anything about it because of the fact I was fighting for the impossible.

And then it all went down the drain, I had to get a reality check on the truth that I was doing nothing wrong, I was protecting my children from all the evil that was happening to them and I. I was sad that my pain was so severe that I was going into a state of shock. I couldn’t believe I was in such a terrible situation I just wanted to wake up, be able to wake up out of this horrible nightmare that I was in. I was sickened by the way that my life was shattered into a billion pieces. Yet, I was the only one who was capable of putting myself back together, every single piece of me I had to make a choice to be able to heal from the trauma that I endured that had taken me through some of the darkest days of my life. I am so grateful for the opportunity to be able to be a light to those who have been through this awful experience while living through domestic violence.

It is so much more than just an inconvenience to be able to share my experiences with others. Domestic violence is serious, nobody should have to be afraid of their own life. I have a lot of people who witnessed the violence that occurred during the time I was with him, they have witnessed the worst of it all. My mom being a part of the chaotic life I was living through. It is very sad to hear that I have lived through this, it brings tears to my eyes because why does anybody deserve this kind of torture?! I am grateful for the experience of my own strength to overcome the worst of this, I hope that I will grow stronger as I heal from this all, who have suffered through the abuse and trauma.

I hope that we who have faced these horrible battles will find the courage to stand firm against the evilness that we all face in the world. I pray that whoever is in the position of being in a situation like this that you are capable of being heard by someone.

I was not worth being loved by him anymore because he had hurt me so badly, he was so proud of it. He had no remorse whatsoever, he had no self control and he had no idea how much he had hurt his own family in the process of his own chaos and his destruction. He was hurting his kids, he was hurting me.. He didn’t care the type of damage he was causing me, he was wanting to make my life miserable. He was proud of himself for all the chaos and pain he was causing, it made him feel better about his own life choices. I’m very appreciative of that heart break that I had to go through the depths of my life to see what I truly deserve. I have been through a hell of a time in my life.. someday I hope to be able to be loved by somebody again, I crave for a gentle love that will never question our love for one another. I pray God brings me love that is healthy, someone who is faithful to me, who is willing to love me and my babies.

I didn’t know how much of a difference it made me feel about the way I was treated during this time of my life, I was judged, I was held to a higher standard of self worth, I am now the most humble women, I understand why certain things happen to us, we should be open minded and aware of what is happening around us.

I am grateful for my struggles to be able to express my feelings the way that I should be able to and most important to be able to say that I’m not alone in this life.

I’ve learned my worth, I will never forget that I was born in a society where people are not always kind to others but rather a person that is willing to stand in their own path and be able to make a difference to others. I am unique in my own way. I am a very different person, I’m okay with that.

I felt I was being punished for being human.

I was hurting, I was sad, I was severely depressed…

I felt like a burden to everyone around me, it made me hate myself so much that even when I had a lot of people who had my back it hadn’t felt that way.

I hadn’t asked for my life to turn into something that was so unbearable for me. I just wanted someone to understand how draining my soul was..

I never wanted to have gone through the trouble of being a woman who was incapable of being heard, to go through so much of heart ache the fear of losing myself and being unable to fight for my own sanity, and my happiness. It was the worst feeling in life to feel this way in my whole existence. To feel worthless, I felt like I was being treated horribly by the people who were suppose to be my people. I felt so much heartache than anyone could imagine. Life has taught me that there was a lot of things that were not meant to happen in my lifetime but that there is something special about being able to live through the pain of losing your self, while slowly building myself back up. Your life has meaning and your own feelings matter to me because I care so much about YOU!! WHOEVER YOU ARE YOU ARE WORTHY 🤍

This relationship was a nightmare for me. I don’t even care about your opinion of my life.

You felt how you felt, I felt like I had no choice but to be honest with myself I didn’t even know who you were then and I can care less about who you are now.

I was so broken, the way he poured so much evil into me he could have given two fucks about me he never cared about me at all.

He treated me like a worthless garbage can and that says enough about him. I deserved to be treated better than this, by the person who I had been in love with. You made me realize how much you weren’t deserving of my love. You didn’t deserve access to me. It’s sad that people get treated so poorly, badly enough that they are being forced to go through the worst possible phase of life on their own and not be able to get a proper explanation for why they deserved to be treated so poorly by their own person who was suppose to be the one who was my saving grace instead you were a horrible mistake and a terrible lesson learned.

I suffered from the pain of being treated like this which caused me to go into a mental breakdown.

It was a horrifying traumatic abusive relationship with a narcissist who can bring you to the point of vulnerability.

I didn’t deserve to be treated this badly, there is lessons learned that are needed to be taught, be a good listener or be a helping hand for others.

We learn to have grace and peace in our hearts as we grow stronger each day to be able to do what we need to do to get through these tough times in life.

Nobody’s been harder on me than me.

I know that I’m a better person than I was when I was hurting, I know I am a better mom than I was when I was hurting, I know I am a better friend than I was when I was hurting, I know I am a better daughter than I was when I was hurting, I’m a better sister than I was when I was hurting…

I am only human. I’m not a bad person, I just want to be able to get back to my normal self again..

I went from having long hair to completely going short with it, I’ve heard that hair can hold a lot of memories, it can also hold a lot of emotions, feelings, and pain. It makes me feel better about myself after I cut it off. Letting go of your fears is not an easy thing to do but it’s the most powerful way to get rid of all the worries you have and make sure that you’re ready to take the leap of faith to get back to your own self.

You are what makes you stronger, you have to keep going forward and make sure you are able to get back on the right path to the next chapter of the story you are telling. The person who has been fighting against you for years, yet still has nothing to offer you in life. The individual who has been fighting against you has been the one who is the problem, they have lost their own way of existence they now suffer from the consequences of their own decisions. They have to live with their choices, they will be affected by this, they will suffer for eternity. Sooner or later they will feel the pain of losing you. They will remember you for how they destroyed your heart and your life. They have no idea how much it will hurt them when they remember the memories of the times they had you in their life, the fact they tried breaking the one person, who was there for them in the past and who was always there for them with so much love and forgiveness that is what they will live with that for the rest of their lifetime!!!!!!

You will feel the most loved by everyone around you for your soul that is so special.

You have to be there for yourself this time. You’re a priority, you have a lot to offer to yourself to help others in your life as you are now in the position of being a part of sharing your story. Don’t let anyone make you feel that you aren’t worthy of being loved. I’m beyond thankful for still being here. For as many times I had wanted to give up. I made the most of my life by being able to keep fighting. The only thing that matters is the strength to keep me going through this process of grief, suffering, healing, and being able to see the things I once had to endure in order to be able to see what was truly worth the sacrifice of my own body and my own soul.

The only person who can be saved by the grace of Jesus is anyone who has ever seen him in the most horrific way possible to be a hero in his entire existence the one that will save you from your own misery and the ones who are the only person that is willing to give you a chance to be the one that can be helped by the one that has given me the most valuable gift of all of this life to be able to live with it and be able to have the peace of mind and to have a better understanding of life than the one that we have now in our own heart Prayers are always the best and the most important thing to do. I have to be able to keep going through this every single day because of the fact I have little one’s who look after me every single day.

I hope you find peace in this life because you deserve it and you are beautiful, you are a very beautiful precious soul. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

Sometimes my trauma makes me feel like I’m just staring into a television playing static

dont read if not feeling well

no one relay talks about how helpless it feels to be in a culture that justifies and normalises child abuse. i cant talk to a "a trusted adult" they hit thier own kid. i cant call "cps" we dont have one, thier is child line but they wont help not realy. its so normal to hit children that i dont know a single kid that hasnt been hit. hiting children is soo normal its in our school sylabus, no realy, there is a eng ch in 9 th grade where they justify hiting children and if children feel bad or mad or anything when they get hit they are the bad guys cuz parents are oh so tired. that chapter desrvrs its own rant. its so normalised that when i shared with my friends some memories , i found that aprently my case is pheraps out of the normal amount of abuse . which is a wild line to say cuz abuse is not ok either way. its not untill 2007?8?9?6? did hiting children in schools became a crime. which still hapens, my second grade teacher used to hit us soo much i still feel traumatied to a point i cant trust treachers anymore . and if teachers arent hiting you they would let you know how much they want to beat you and how much they wished it was legal and how much you desrve to be hit and i am like bro i am 7 ??

by the way its legal for parents to hit thier children at home,so yeah goverment thanks for nothing!

also i am from a uraban city in my country next to my country's capital, so things are way worse in rural areas .

GUYS ,A QUESTION?(genuely serious and imp question)

is it normal for parents to like...say things like

1 "tang toar dungi/dunga"

(TRANSLATION:" i will break your legs!")

2 "utha ke patak dunga/patk dungi"

( TRANSLATION:" i will pick up and thow you on the floor !" thtas the closets translation icould ghink of)

3 " jhapad padega zoor se ! "

(TRANSLATION: ill slap you really hard/you'll get slaped realy hard !)

4 " school se naam katwa ke ghar pe jhadu pocha karwane bethake shaadi karwadijaygi ! "

(TRANSLATION: "well have your name cut from school, well make you do cleaning , cooking, then mary you off ! ")

5 " mu tor dunga/dungi"

9TRANSATION : "ILL BREAK YOUR FACE !")

etc etc When your were 11? 7? 4? and even now? for the smalest of things and geting a sum wrong.

is it normal or is like the thrats of voilence just normalised in our culture. also non indians what are your thoughts on yhis ? how bad is this?

add on too this is it normal for them to throw things at you and break you stuff?

is it normal to get yelled at for wanting to sleep alone since i am nearly alomst going to be 16?

is it normal to get yelled at for wanting a closed door?am i wird for wanting a closecd door?

is it normal for my father to throw me on the floor when i was in 1st 2 nd grade and i did a sum the way my teacher told me and not the way he said and i told him this but he just threw me on the floor brfpore slaping and bashing my head?

is it normal for parents to say " why do you make me do this? i dont like doing this to you." and i have to aopligise?

i genuionly dont know if its normal,part of culture or what so plesae people any one got htoughts becuse i am drowining in guilt and would like outside perspective pleases

NO LONGER AFRAID

I finally know who to blame, For all the days spent in fear For all the nights filled with tears It’s not me but you who shall feel shame !

You thrived in your darkness, sowing doubt and despair, While I fought through the silence, gasping for air. It’s time for you to face the truth of your ways, The pain you inflicted, the endless dark days. Each whisper of doubt that you planted so deep, Now fuels my resolve; it awakens my sleep. I stand in the light, and I’m breaking your hold, No longer a story of fear to be told. As I turn from your darkness, a weight lifts at last, Goodbye to the moments that held me steadfast. Bittersweet is the farewell, for lessons you’ve taught, In the shadows you cast, a resilience I’ve sought. I grieve for the pieces of me you confined, Yet I step into freedom, leaving you behind. With each breath I take, I reclaim my own light, In this sorrowful parting, I’m ready to fight

Yes!!

stop making "jokes" about male, female, and queer victims who were abused my cishet men, women, and queer people.

Men can be verbally, emotionally, physically, and sexually abused by not only men but women as well. The same goes for women abused by women and queer people. Traits like gender may play a role in the reasoning and forms of abuse and how victims express trauma, but it's not a main factor of who takes the role of victim and or abuser.

The continuous notion of men are the only problems when it comes to abuse is so wrong, because there are other factors to why people act out abusive behavior other than the lazy argument of "men biologically love sex" and or "men bad". And some may reject that but I've seen posts of men, women, and queer people having their reports of abuse dismissed because it wasn't man. Sometimes if a man sexually abuses a man it's either seen as "desirable if the two are queer" or used as "valid" reasoning for hating "queer people". Instances of abuse like this are often twisted into a false narrative to either laugh at or exploit to fearmonger.

Support victims of abuse and trauma no matter who they are and don't invalidate their feelings just because "they have it better than others". As well as finding help for abusers to possibly reform and learn from the mistakes and take strides to better themselves. Don't be dismissive. And for people who have low empathy or just struggle with comforting others and expressing emotion in general just let the person know you'll be there for them and ask how they feel and what they want to discuss and do moving forward. If the person doesn't want to talk about then that's fine just hangout if they want company and suggest types of therapy they can use or anything that would be more appropriate in the moment.

abusiveness and predation is not unique to men. abusive women (and the abuse of men for that matter) are much, much more common than you think. if your support for abuse survivors only extends to women or people who were abused by men, you don't actually support survivors.

so to all the survivors who aren't women, and the survivors whose abusers weren't men: i believe you, and i see you. you deserve to be safe and supported. you are not alone. your pain and suffering matters just as much as others' does. what happened to you is just as awful, and i'm wishing you so much healing and happiness.