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You know what’s better than romance and sex. Food. Garlic bread and cake coming my way. 

I love how I started out writing a comic book, while thinking I must be cis and pan, and now that I’m nearing the end of it, I’m trans, non-binary, and aroace. Granted, before that I thought I was cishet, and kinda just denying way too many fucking things about myself. Upon admitting them through storytelling, I somehow feel much much gayer. This is probably because I feel more comfortable in my skin now. Thank you for my TEDTalk.

Crisis of the Century

So...I identify with aroace, and I fully identify with ace, though there was something about it, that wasn’t 100%. I realize now, that I’m probably gray-romantic. I blame the cute people in my class, though, i also wanna be their friend too. So...yayy...so fun. I think, though, it’s in part because I’ve been wearing transtape, and I’ve been more comfortable in my body, and I feel much more free, so I guess it’s not a surprise that my brain is letting feel this new stuff, granted it rarely happens anyways, so gray-romantic. That’s about it. 

Thanks for the tag @twomanyfandomshelp

Here's mine

I think all the ones I didn't mark is just because I'm not that openly out yet/ the people who do know are not dumb enough to say that.

I made an acespec bingo!

*Mentioned in the bingo is the term “m-spec” - it stands for “multiple attraction spectrum” and is a spectrum of orientations defined by attraction to multiple genders.

A common aspec (asexual and aromantic spectrum) experience is thinking you’re m-spec before figuring out you are actually aspec.

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does anyone else feel like tearing their skin off when their friends talk about doing sex stuff, or is that just me

like, sex is a joke to me. I have an understanding that it's a real thing people do but I do NOT need to be slammed face first ino the reality that it is a thing that people I KNOW do. I was in the car with my friend today and she was talking about not being able to wear a thin strap dress because of the ~bruises~ on her shoulders and I felt like my skin was crawling. I legitimately feel so icky. I hate that I'm like this and I want to be a better friend who can laugh and talk about that stuff with her but honestly it makes me want to puke

and I just feel so alone and nobody understands and my favorite people make me feel icky now and I just hate it

As an asexual person, I have had luck from the Gods! I live in such a small town, that my school was in the middle of a corn field. I would think to myself "There's only 1 aspec person in 100, I'm probably the only one for miles" AND THEN TWO OF MY BEST FRIENDS TELL ME THEY'RE ASPEC!!!

It's never too late to try something for the first time if it's something you want to do. You're never too old for a first kiss, first date, first time trying sex, etc.

There is no “see results”, just vote.

Tags, lol: @our-aspec-experience @our-asexual-experience @our-aroace-experience @ace-culture-is @asexual-society @asexualadvice @asexualspectrumspector @asexual @aroaceconfessions

what’s the point of the “aro and ace ppl aren’t oppressed!!” card to exclude us?

like first of all, aros and aces ARE oppressed in such an amatonormative world, but even if we weren’t, isn’t it the biggest goal of the lgbtq+ community to not be oppressed one day? we want a world where gay and lesbian people are no longer oppressed, which is a great thing, but when that happens, are we suddenly going to drop them from the community just because they “aren’t oppressed anymore”?

since when has oppression played a part in whether or not someone is queer?? trans women tend to get more shit than trans men even though both are severely oppressed, so are the former somehow more queer than the latter? last time i checked, the answer was, and still is, no...

if you aren’t allocishet, then you can consider yourself a member of the lgbtq+ community; not because of the oppression you face, but because you deviate from the allonormative, amatonormative, monormative, cisnormative, or heteronormative structures of society. period

Passing on because asexuals are queer

asexuals are queer pass it on

Liking sex in fiction or the idea of sex and being asexual is normal. Asexual doesn't mean non-sexual, some aces are still sexual in some ways.

Nope, never looked at my cock and thought 'Mmm...papa needs him some of that hot meat'. You are a genius.

No part of your body is inherently sexual. You do not have to view any part of you as sexual if you do not want to.

I think telling individuals who like to regularly post pornographic content to go fuck themselves may not be the wisest thing to request.

Genuinely, to all those purposefully spamming their pornographic content in the asexual tags (without warning/content labels)....

Go fuck yourself?...I usually hate being one of those people who post things like this. But just...fuck you? What is your problem

Queerplatonic Relationships: An Introduction

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Cisgender Aromantic

Heterosexuals and

Cisgender

Heteroromantic

Asexuals are Queer!

Yup, keep that shit away from me

aego culture is having "x reader" tag blocked

Keep the x reader far, far away

Hi! I'm Cartoon Fan!

I prefer no pronouns, but it/its and they/them are good too.

I'm an oriented aroace autistic artistic! I love shows like HB, TOH, TMNT, LMK, and many cartoons of the like.

Dni if proship/NSFW